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Oh man! did I mess up!?
Okay I went to lunch with an old friend of mine yesterday. A guy-friend(he is married with 3 beautiful girls) Anyway I am not interested in him like that. Well I had made these plans like 3 days ago. I was going to tell my boyfriend about the plans but I forgot to inform him. I have had lunch with my friend before and my boyfriend was ok with it. It wasn't an issue. I think really that is why it was insignificant for me to really remember to tell him about my lunch plans. So my boyfriend called me about 10:30 am and asked me to go to lunch with him. I told him I already made plans with my guy-friend would you like to meet us there. Oh man my boyfriend still isn't talking to me. He keeps saying that It looks bad on me that I didn't tell him when I made the plans. and what if my our co-workers saw me and the guy together without My bf being there. Oh man It wasn't an issue before so I think that is why I forgot. Ok I know I really messed up. I didn't know he was this insecure, he got pretty angry saying that he doesn't know if I meet him 4 times a wk. or what. My question is what in the world do I do Now? I have already explained/sincere apology and when that didn't work, I feel lost. I am not sure what to do now. Please help.
My boyfriend is the most important thing in my life. I love him dearly. He just can't get past the fact that I didn't tell him of my plans. I am supposed to go out of town right after I leave work today. so this was a bad time to have a serious argument. It was ugly last night and uglier this morning and I am not going to see him til Monday after he gets home from work.
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- MarinaLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
Update: He is still making a scene over this? There is something going on here that has nothing to do with the lunch. If you apologized and took responsibility for your part (or what you think you did wrong), then you can simply feel okay and let him have his issues. Don't feel you are part of them because you aren't. This is all about him. Go out of town and feel okay. It may be a good time for him to calm down.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Tell him about the guy-friend. My boyfriend did the same thing, I went to the mall with an old high school friend, and he got angry at me saying 'oh he probably likes you, and you go spend time alone with him'
Just tell him that he's married with three kids, and you've spent time with him before with no problems so what's changed since then? Just give him some time to think it out, chances are he'll realize he made a bit of an *** of himself.
- A Lack of ColorLv 51 decade ago
Just be honest with him. Tell him that it just completely slipped your mind that your boyfriend would get jealous and that you didn't think much of it, considering that he was just a friend. Ask him if he thinks you've ever done anything to arouse his suspicion, and if he says no, then tell him that it's unreasonable for him to get angry over something you consider an honest mistake. Tell him that trust is a big part of a relationship, and you guys will need to work on how to trust each other if you want your relationship to last long. Tell him that you do take this seriously, and ask him what you can do to make your relationship a more trusting one.