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Anonymous asked in Social ScienceSociology · 1 decade ago

Everybody says I have a bad personality?

Ho do I act nicer and more approacable. My friend told me that the other day, they were at McDonalds and were talking about having a night out like we usually go and said shes going to ask me to go..

Tina - YEah i'm going to ask paris to go

kyle - whos paris? everybody talks about her and i always hear her name but who is she?

tim - some ugly bytch

tina - shes not ugly

mike - tina, you give her too much credit.

tina - what ? you can says shes anythign but ugly you know shes not ugly

mike - i never understand why guys put her on their top 5 for sexiest girls they dated

tina - cause shes not ugly

mike - yeah shes not ugly but personality plays a part...

**i didn't use real names but this hurt my feelings..Not about someone calling me ugly cause I know im not ugly but the fact that people think I'm not a nice person..how can I be "nice"?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Never act like you are better than someone else! even if your know you are

    Be interested in what other peoples problems aredont just always talk about yourself and your problems

    Don't complain about things all the time

    Do nice things for people for No reason at all!

    Keep a daily “character journal” focusing exclusively on the area in which you wish to improve yourself

    When trying to correct a bad trait, temporarily embrace the opposite extreme

    Avoid even sins that seem minor because,“One sin will lead to another”

    Don't lie! EVER! for the same reason as listed above "One lie will lead to more lies"

    Good luck!!! And don't be to hard on yourself. The problem may very well not be with you it might be that the people you are talking about here are not "nice" people!

  • 1 decade ago

    Aww that's so mean!

    I know exactly what your saying, people always tell me I have an attitude problem when really I don't even notice..just because I don't smile all the time doesn't mean I'm not happy.

    Anyway, my advice to you is to talk to people the way u would like to be spoken to. Honestly I would just say maybe next time u can go up to them and just simply ask how their day was..that can help a lot!

    good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    i think the real question here is do you think you are nice?? are there things that you do that one might take offense to? those things you might want to take into consideration but in the end you have to be yourself. not everyone is going to like you no matter how nice you are. just stay true to who you are, take other peoples feelings into consideration and smile. the fact that you are even worried about this says a lot about who you are. (a good person.) =)

  • 1 decade ago

    Beauty is skin deep. And only you would know if you have a bad personality. Check yourself and see if the answers to your questions are the same you would like for another person to have in reference to you.

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  • You shouldn't change yourself for others. They are probably just jealous anyways. I don't know what to tell you really. I guess just try to be nice to them. But when people hurt your feelings its not always easy.

    Anyways Good Luck:)

  • 1 decade ago

    haha my question got deleted, calm down, i thought u wanted to change ur personality and u wanted to know how to be nice? Try not calling people rude and unnecessary names? Im not gonna be rude and call u ugly or a chimp because you are actually pretty and im not gonna call you a b*tch either because I dont know you and that would be stoopig down to your level which I would hate to go.

  • Kael M
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Watch what you say about other people.

    I have a tendancy to tell people what i think, and it gets me into trouble. I don't think honesty should be classfied as a character flaw but you should watch what you say to other people, especially if it is something negative.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well you may come across as rude.

    Many people who don't know pretty girls think that they are stuck up just because they are pretty.

    They probably don't know you very well.

    Maybe you could just smile at people more.

  • 1 decade ago

    hm, well just be the opposite of what you're being i guess..

    but he said personality plays a part, not necessarily that you're not nice, maybe you just lack character.

  • 1 decade ago

    well you could be nicer to people...i don't know how you act but.... and you could try to be more outgoing or funny or nicer or just try to make friends:)

    hope this helps:]

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