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Should I tell my boyfriend that I am going to a pool party on Saturday?
me and my best friend are having a big pool party on saturday. we are both girls, and ALL of our friends are guys. My boyfriend knows that most of my friends are guys in general.. but i'm not sure how he'd react if he knew I was gonna be in a 2 piece in front of 30 guys.. who some like me.
I never want to lie to him, but I know he'll blow this whole thing out of proportion and make it seem like i'm in the wrong. What should I do?
I don't want to invite him because it's just a fun friends hang out party.
8 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Don't go out of your way to tell him, but if he asks, don't lie to him.
Source(s): Censored honesty is always the best policy. - 1 decade ago
The fact that you even have to ask shows that you know there is something wrong about this. How can ALL of your friends be guys? 2 girls and 30 guys and you don't want to invite your boyfriend? Some of your guy friends like you and you don't want your boyfriend around? Do you even want a boyfriend?, cos this party sounds like a shopping trip to me. Invite some other girls or it's gonna be boring for the guys who don't have a shot at you and your bff. Invite your bf anyway or you will lose him, and you would deserve to.
- 1 decade ago
just with hold that part that there will be mostly guys.....tell him that your going to a pool party with a girlfriends friends. that way he thinks that you don't know who will be there. there could be 30 guys or 30 girls there.
or you can tell him that you hanging out with some friends on satuday. just not tell him what friends are going to be there & what your doing.
or you can tell him the truth & if he has a problem with all the guys that will be there he will just have to get over it. yes there will be guys there but your with him & that's all there is to it. if he truly cares for you then he has to trust you around your own friends.
i think your best bet in a way is the last one. ither you have that fight now or you'll have it latter but you will have that decision eventually. trust me on that.
- 1 decade ago
invite him to ur party....and if its going to be that big of a deal...talk to him...and if that goes crazy wrong....well i think you should dump him. hes dating you. that doesn't mean he gets full claime of you. as long as ur not messing around with anyone its no big deal. you're doing NOTHING wrong and if he has possesion issues....don't be invovled in that
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- 1 decade ago
Personally, I would tell him about it. He'd probably be more mad and suspicious if he found out afterwards.
- 1 decade ago
u need to tell him even if he blows it out of proportion just tell him ur welcome to come if u want
- Anonymous1 decade ago
invite him.
