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re:married guy needs help?
i knew i was gay because i heart always beat faster when a guy comes in the room,but when i girl enter i will say"she cute ,very sexy" but i really dont care less about her,,but for a guy i will even dream about him at night.
believe me i've tried to change and everytime i try i just push myself more to the gay side..
im not proud of what i am.although i know gay people are very proud of themselves and they dont care what others say to them but im still very conservative...but i need to let the only women i ever loved know that she is married to a fraud..like i said,she dont diserve this and she can get a good guy with the snap of her finger.she's basically what every man out there is looking for in a girl..then why am i like this? i wonder....
3 Answers
- .Lv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
Why the hell did you ever marry her? You need to tell her the truth and let her move on with her life. As painful as it will be for her to hear, she deserves the truth from you.
- AubreyLv 61 decade ago
Well I sure hope you didn't screw up and have kids with her as well! What a thing to explain to them!
You need to tell your wife. If you haven't experimented with a guy already, you need to. I say this because, I have heard of men thinking they were gay, completely, but then having the actual experience was disgusting and not at all what they had imagined.
Sometimes people want a break from normalcy, to really appreciate what they have. But I am in no way saying cheat! I just think you should talk to your wife. In today's day and age people are a lot more open minded than you would think.
- 1 decade ago
Mike, I admire you so much for wanting to do the right thing. I know this will be extremely difficult, but you need to tell your wife that you are gay. (Don't be surprised if she already knows.) By coming out to your wife you are honoring both of your lives with the truth. She deserves to be in a loving relationship with a man who is genuinely attracted to her. And you deserve to breath free and be who you really are. Living a lie this big will twist your heart and mind into agonizing knots.
Quit beating up on yourself. You were created as a gay man. Live as you truly are and remind yourself that God loves you. You and your wife are in my prayers.
