I feel like everyone hates me?

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I don't know if it's me, but lately it seems as if eveyrone hates me.  My "friends" are being extremely rude, family members are ignoring my emails, and teachers.. well, lets just say that some are disappointed in me.

Usually in these situations I go to Allah and pray, but I feel like there is so much anger in my heart. I feel so angry, and like I just have been screaming and yelling at everyone since yesterday. I don't feel like praying and when I do, it's not a sincere one. I just rush through it because I don't want to talk to Allah.. it seems as if he's mad at me anyway..

Idk whats up. If it's me then I'm willing to say sorry to anyone.. but people these day's.. if you genuienly say sorry they're just going to shrug you off and give you an attitude.

idk what to do.. someone help!

I feel like everyone just hates me, including Allah, despite the fact that I DO try to be a good person. 

Idk what to do.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

awwwwwww

we all love you! :)
don't be down like that, life is short and there's no time to be thinking like that. I don't mean to be a hypocrite because I sometimes feel like everything is going wrong too. Trust me, just pray sincerely sometime to Allah....everything will be okay inshallah.

Good Luck!

Allah&#39;s Slave Alhumdulilah · Answer

Asalamualikum ... sister Allah (swt) loves u ... all u need to do is stop the yelling and anger .. as it is not something likeable in Islam ... recite Quran more often .. Pray to Allah (swt) .. He is the most Able .. He will listen to ur prayer and everything will be alright .. Inshallah !! 

May Allah (swt) Guide u and bless u !!

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, I hear you. I've been there before, felt that way before. It's a little paranoid, and depressing (both), that people can be so untrustworthy sometimes, but times are hard these days. If it helps any...try to remember what you yourself have to do, for yourself, to get through the day. Remember how you have to put the blinders on, muddle through, and just think about (and do for) yourself only. Try to remember that....and then assume that this is what other people are doing as well. One sure way to deal with that paranoid sort of hopelessness is to just have a more realistic perspective--assume times are hard all over, and that most of the people you're dealing with are just too busy (or overwhelmed) with their own lives to even _think_ about you, never mind hate you. I hope this was helpful. You can email me if you need someone to listen...I can offer that much. I do check my email at least daily.

Zainab · Answer

That's very confusing but it's always good to talk to people and let it all out so if you want email me. I'll talk to you and try and give you good advice.

Katie M · Answer

You need to forgive yourself before you can forgive others. Find your inner peace and you will find balance and happiness in your life. I'm not a Muslim, but I don't think he's mad at you; you're mad at yourself and that anger is the barrier between you and your god.

Umar · Answer

Have patience, this happens to me a lot ad when it does, its all because a lack of imaan and sabr. Increase your imaan. Read Quran. learn more about islam, and if u want, try what i do and go to youtube and watch islamic videos. Watch this video, its really really great. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IN4lFNbANPY

Nerdfighter28 · Answer

awww, don't worry, I love you enough to make up for those who aren't appreciating you at the moment (and so do most of the answerers above me),so just keep strong :)

Anonymous · Answer

salam, I know what it's like to feel that way. But Insha'Allah all goes well. Allah(SWT) does not hate you, sis. Just listen and read the Qu'ran and Insha'Allah it will remove any anger from your heart. Don't worry this will pass and things will get better Insha'Allah, have patience. =)

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And verily We shall try you till We know those of you who strive hard (for the cause of Allah) and the steadfast, and till We test your record. (47:31)

Who have believed and whose hearts have rest in the remembrance of Allah. Verily in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest! (13:28)

So, verily, with every difficulty, there is relief: Verily with every difficulty there is relief. Therefore, when thou art free (from thine immediate task), still labour hard And to thy Lord turn (all) thy attention. (94:5-7)

The Prophet (peace be upon him)said:"No fatigue, illness, anxiety, sorrow, harm or sadness afflicts any Muslim, even to the extent of a thorn pricking him, without Allah wiping out his sins by it." (Sahih al Bukhari and Sahih Muslim)

I am as My servant expects Me to be. I am with him when he makes mention of Me. If he makes mention of Me to himself, I make mention of him to Myself; and if he makes mention of Me in an assembly, I make mention of him in an assembly better than it. And if he draws near to Me an arm's length, I draw near to him a fathom's length. And if he comes to Me walking, I go to him at speed. – ( al-Bukhari also by Muslim, at-Tirmidhi and Ibn-Majah).

gymnast_419 · Answer

Find new friends, or ask someone you trust.  Try to give people lots of compliments, and be extremely nice to them.

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Allah loves all  :)

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