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I was just wondering can a man be too nice to a woman?
i'm 25 and she was 30 and just got out of a abusive relationship and she said i was way too nice
i guess i was suppose to like beat her or something but i'm not like that
but thank you for all of your answers they all were good but only one gets the best answer
21 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I think it is good for a man to be nice to a woman, it depends on the timing sometimes people will want alittle more of an aggresive side, like when a woman wants to be stood up for or sometimes in sex a woman might want him to be more rough..but yeah be nice to women you will be a better man for it.
- ?Lv 41 decade ago
Depends on the woman I would think. It is good to be nice. Me personally I love a really sweet genuine guy. I have friends who like the "bad boy" and view too nice as kinda sissy. I don't think a man should change from being a nice guy to a bad a$$ though just for a woman, because if she can't love him for who he is she isn't worth it.
- 1 decade ago
Yes!
You can be too nice!
If you think you're being "too nice" then you probably are.
Your niceness should be balanced out with the rest of your personality.
If you're just nice all of the time it can feel monotonous to a woman after awhile and you're setting yourself up to find someone who will walk all over you. You have to have your limits, too!
- PandoraLv 41 decade ago
You can’t be too nice TO a woman, but you can be too nice FOR a woman.
Women like men who are strong and aggressive when need be. They like the beast inside. Why do you think bad boys get so much play?
Its instinctual, find the best/strongest mate and be with them.
Hope this helps,
-Pandora-
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- ♥Lv 61 decade ago
Rarely.
Girls are usually the very nice ones in the relationships, and the guy takes advantage of it.
Talking about the majority here, sure there are exceptions.
- 1 decade ago
Yes.
I think that a guy who's truly nice is hard to find and anyone who has one is lucky, but there's a difference betweeen truly nice and suffocatingly nice. If a guy's too nice it's a little boring and quite annoying.
Niceness should be in balance. :-)
- CamLv 51 decade ago
There is a point where it probably becomes a little annoying. Does a girl want a pushover, or a man? That's the real question here.
- 1 decade ago
Yes, you can be too understanding and nice to a point where you let people walk all over you and take advantage.
- 1 decade ago
Honestly, yes. It does get creepy if they are too nice, but nice is perfect. :) But don't turn bad just for her. If she doesn't like your kindly nature, then just dump her.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
depends on the woman. some, yes, definitely. some people (male or female) are wary of those who seem incredibly nice, or inordinately fond of them.