my boyfriend jokes that im fat...im 5'9 and 125 lbs. makes me cry?

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my boyfriend knows that im very self concious about my weight and worry about what i eat and stuff. ive told him how self concious i am before. 
he told me i had love handles. 
there was a picture of a fat girl on tv and hes like hey you look like that girl. 
he always plays with and flicks the fat on my arms and sometimes grabs the little bit of fat i have on my stomach.

whenever he does any of this it makes me wanna cry. i know im not fat, but i do worry that im not skinny enough. ive worried about my weight for years, and im thinking about seriously stopping eating or eating way less. im very atheletic and run track and do swimming. hes hurting my self esteem and i feel fat now. what should i do?

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He's an insenstive azz and you're allowing his stupid comments to cause you want to want to be foolish and harm yourself. Ditch him and get some self esteem so other people's stupid comments won't affect you.

If anything, you are underweight as it is. I'm 5'6" and I look too thin if I get under 135. Stick people aren't pretty...and they're unhealthy just like fat people. Get some girlie balls, like who you are, and tell him to go phuque himself.

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Damn girl you are skinny maybe too skinny? I'm not sure. But what I am sure about is the fact that your boyfriend is an idiot and a jerk. He needs to stop saying mean things like that. That is very mean and insensitive of him to do such things and you should seriously consider kicking this guy to the curb. You should try to be less self-conscious about your weight and just yourself in general. You seem like you are a very nice person and you need to be happy with who you are. If you aren't then well you will have a host of other problems that do not entail just being fat.. You are not fat so you need to get that inane thought out of your head right now, and be happy with who you are. And if your boyfriend can't handel that then he deserves to rot in a sack Best wishes

starr_goddess · Answer

Joking or no joking if he knows ur self conscious about it..then he still shouldnt be saying that. U need to get rid of him no use having someone putting you down. Seriously i wish i was 125..im 190 and im 5'7...hun trust me ur not fat at all!!!

kingda ka · Answer

dump him! a real man will always make you feel beautiful, and would never speak to you like that or bring you down in anyway. a real man will treat you like gold. get rid of him and find someone better! I'm 5'9 and 125 too, trust me sweetheart, you have nothing to worry about as far as weight goes. your boyfriend on the other hand, is a real jerk and you deserve much better.

Anonymous · Answer

how mean! you dont have nothing to worry about you are not fat! you are perfect!  i am 17 a junior in  highschool 5'4 and 160 lbs! now i have somethin to worry about not you! leave him if he is such a jerk if you lose anymore weight you'll be underweight and can get unhealthy

idk:) · Answer

tell him how you feel and tell him he hurts ur self esteem (basically what you just told us)

dont stop eating cuz 125 pounds is not fat

? · Answer

you dont have to deal with that put him to the side no boy is that good if they have to really joke off there girlfriend about her health problems i would be angry an wouldnt talk to him until he changes he's messed up attitude

homebyfive · Answer

Don't Hesitate GET A NEW BOY FRIEND !!! ASAP Leave that loser in the dust you will never regret it I Promise you.

king kong 999 · Answer

He don't mean it because I do the same to my brother when I know it's not true I'll say your stupid but really he's the smartest personin my school.

Allie · Answer

That's horrible, he shouldn't do that.
Ever.
A guy should NEVER treat a girl that way, especially if he's your boyfriend.
Set him straight.

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my boyfriend jokes that im fat...im 5'9 and 125 lbs. makes me cry?

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