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My boyfriend jokes that im fat...im 5'9 and 125 lbs. makes me cry?
My boyfriend jokes that im fat...im 5'9 and 125 lbs. makes me cry?
my boyfriend knows that im very self concious about my weight and worry about what i eat and stuff. ive told him how self concious i am before.
he told me i had love handles.
there was a picture of a fat girl on tv and hes like hey you look like that girl.
he always plays with and flicks the fat on my arms and sometimes grabs the little bit of fat i have on my stomach.
whenever he does any of this it makes me wanna cry. i know im not fat, but i do worry that im not skinny enough. ive worried about my weight for years, and im thinking about seriously stopping eating or eating way less. im very atheletic and run track and do swimming. hes hurting my self esteem and i feel fat now. what should i do?
hes like joking when he says this but it still bothers me and he knows it.
im a sophomore in high school and ive been asked to model b4 from abercrombie and hollister. thats another reason y im considering losing weight. am i too fat to be a model?
36 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I would cry to if i was that fat.....
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Damn girl you are skinny maybe too skinny? I'm not sure. But what I am sure about is the fact that your boyfriend is an idiot and a jerk. He needs to stop saying mean things like that. That is very mean and insensitive of him to do such things and you should seriously consider kicking this guy to the curb. You should try to be less self-conscious about your weight and just yourself in general. You seem like you are a very nice person and you need to be happy with who you are. If you aren't then well you will have a host of other problems that do not entail just being fat..
You are not fat so you need to get that inane thought out of your head right now, and be happy with who you are. And if your boyfriend can't handel that then he deserves to rot in a sack
Best wishes
- ?Lv 45 years ago
dump him! a real man will always make you feel beautiful, and would never speak to you like that or bring you down in anyway. a real man will treat you like gold. get rid of him and find someone better! I'm 5'9 and 125 too, trust me sweetheart, you have nothing to worry about as far as weight goes. your boyfriend on the other hand, is a real jerk and you deserve much better.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
He's probably just teasing you. Guys are not as worried as girls. Or he might be jealous. I am 205lbs 6"1 whenever I say that they think I am fat too LOL( i'm bodybuilder). I get clients like you everyday. Your weight is just right if you feel really fat you can go to gym to tone up. But you really shouldn't. I suggest having a serious talk with your bf
- 1 decade ago
Are you serious????
I am one inch taller than you, and I love your weight.
If you're boyfriend makes you cry...what is your question?
I have a question? Do you like to cry? Do you like feeling overweight? Do you like being the but of jokes?
If your answer is no, then you need another boyfriend. Never love anyone more than you love yourself.
Also, he is hurting your self-esteem because YOU are allowing it
If you continue listening to your boyfriend, you're going to end up with an eating disorder.
I think you are model material...and I wish you the best with your goal.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Oh my god. You are not fat, I know it. Don't change yourself for the rest of the world! Everyone is beautiful.
As far as your boyfriend is considered I say you tell him to stop, and if he keeps hurting your self esteem say goodbye. He doesn't need to be treating you like that.
- 1 decade ago
If you look at a chart, like this one
http://www.healthchecksystems.com/heightweightchar...
It tells you you are under your ideal weight, even if you have a small frame. Don't listen to him, if you are athletic then he's probably jealous. And if it bothers you then you should tell him about it. You can't keep secrets like this. Tell him it bothers you and maybe he'll stop.
And if he keeps saying it then keep reminding him about it until he gets the message. If it persists then maybe you don't need him. You should do what YOU want, not what he wants.
You only get one chance in life, don't waste it.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
No you aren't fat. Dump the BF and find someone who treats you nicely. If you want to model, don't keep trying to lose weight before you do, just go try and see what they say.
- 1 decade ago
He is probably self conscious himself;; so by making you feel bad it makes him feel good. You need to let him go...seriously. Don't let any man tell anything that you don't like. And you need to confront him about it. And if you got offers for modeling then you can obviosly get someone wayyy better.
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- 1 decade ago
you should definitely dump him and find a guy who respects you and how you look.
you're not too fat to model. models are way too skinny and people always make fun of them because of that. it's good that you not a stick but you're not fat either. you're healthy and i don't mean that to be offensive. i'm sorry if it comes off that way.