Do you think I'm annoying her?

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So I have a little bit of a problem. A girl I dance with is my hero. I look up to her so much. She knows that there is no one else that I would rather be like. I've told her this like, 25 times. Well, not that much, but a lot. I've been texting her lately, and I think she might be annoyed with me. There's no way to tell for sure. I've also been talking to her on Facebook. I think I might be annoying her, because she hasn't been responding. I mean, I don't text her THAT much, but when I have something to tell her, I'll usually text her and tell her, which is like, every 4 hours or so. I dance 3 days a week with her, for about 5 hours each night. I can sometimes me a little clingy, but that's only because I want to get closer to her. We don't go to the same school, so I only see her at dance. I try to give her some space, and I'm usually pretty good at that. But I'm scared that I might be annoying her, and that's the last thing I want to do. What should I do when I'm giong to see her today after school?

Ciara P · Accepted Answer

I think you just need to distance yourself for a little while- maybe you came off as a little clingy? That's okay though, you might have just been a little nervous around her. I understand that you want to get closer to her, but sometimes constantly texting and online chatting just isn't the best way, especially if she stops answering.
  Also, the two of you are spending a lot of time together as it is, what with your dancing. You might not think that texting her every four hours is a lot, but it all adds up.
  If you have annoyed her, the best thing to do is to give her some space for a bit- maybe even stop contacting her online and through text for a week or so. When you see her at dance, smile and be chatty, this is when you should really be getting to know her- after all, you do have five hours to do it.
  Then maybe in a while, send her a message on Facebook or a text, just a simple "Hey, what's up?" You may even be so lucky that she'll send you one first!

Hope this helps and good luck!

Quinn · Answer

You already spend a good amount of time with her, so all the texting a facebooking may be a bit overbearing for her. If she never texts you first, I'd say one text a week would do. Just keep it simple. You don't want her to think that you're desperate. You can tell her all the other stuff when you see her at dance.

Big Fetus · Answer

yes you are annoying her but you just need to make a move and hit that **** yo

Anonymous · Answer

tell her ur annoying her then stop but still tlak to her

Anonymous · Answer

i agree with ALESANA.

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