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im going crazy...........?
ive been dating my boyfriend who i love a bunch since i was 14. i am 18 now and live with him 2000 miles away from our familys...but that dosnt really matter cause i felt this way before we left. i have love problems. i dont know if i want to be with him forever, but the way things are right now it dosnt feel like anythings gonna change. i love him very much, but i cant help but think there is more fun out there for me and that hes sorta holding me back from. cause hes not very social eather. i dont know what to do sooooo help please
and just to add a little, it not that i cant get another boyfriend, cuz i really could...like within a matter of hours, im not like ugly at all....it just i dont want to hurt him, but yea...i dont want to regret this for the rest of my life
2 Answers
- Rooster 1972Lv 51 decade ago
Look you are young and he is young. You should listen to the "greatest gift" that God has given everyone of us. Your inner feelings or intuition. They are telling you that this relationship is not meant to be one forever. You both should enjoy your youth, and do things and not be worried about any kind of committment. Just tell him that it is time to go your own way and he should do the same. Things are not going to change staying in the current situation. Sometimes the best things in life are the hardest. Right now this is the hardest, but in the long run it is the best. Move back to where your family is and get involved in college or a career maybe in the military. In the military you can see the world, get a college education and meet so many different and really interesting people. Do this and it would be the best decision you will have ever made.
- 1 decade ago
you should talk to him about how you feel, because chances are he may be feeling the same exact way.
if you really aren't sure if he is the one for you, and you feel like you are staying with him out of habit, or fear he's the only one you'll get then you are wrong. theres always somebody out there. and if you are unsure about him then chances are he isn't the one.
you may have been with him for a very long time, but maybe you can suggest a small break of the relationship and see where things can go from there. because if you stay with a man you are unsure of then you'll regret it your whole life.
