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Gay and whats wrong........?

All right. B/F and I have not had sex for 8 months or so (give or take). I could be a little insecure, but I am very attracted to just random strangers whom I may see on the streets. I think the fantasy of just wondering/curiosity gets me going more than the actual sexual act w/ b/f. Should I just keep living my life of actually getting "My rocks off" by fantasizing about strangers who I will never see again or try to have a healthy sexual relationship with my b/f?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Gay and everythings wrong..........!!!!

    Source(s): yours truly
  • 1 decade ago

    Well first I would like to know why you are not having sex? Is it because your b/f doesn't want to? Is he giving/making excuses NOT to have sex w/you?

    I am a straight woman and I lived w/a guy for about 1.5 yrs. In the beginning we were "hot and heavy", unfortunately, however, he came in like a lion and went out like a lamb. He just "stopped" everything. No sex, no touching, hugging, kissing, NOTHING. I had to ask, well, if you are not getting it at home, then you must be getting it somewhere else? (he was on a certain medication that, he claimed killed his sex drive), I was on the same thing and my sex drive was fine.

    I would just ask him directly why he is not being sexual with you.

    I hope things work out! Good Luck

  • 1 decade ago

    fantasizing about another person while with your significant other is completely normal just as long as u have no real relation with the person whom u are fantasizing about. In fact it keeps things "spiced up" you could say. [=

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    the main key in life is to be happy.

    if getting off on random strangers is your thing, stick with it.

    :D

    don't stress.

    if it makes you content, then dont worry about it.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    try to have a healthy sexual relationship with your boyfriend

  • 1 decade ago

    real sex > masturbation. and nothing's wrong w/ u

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I SAY NOTHING WRONG WITH IT LIVE YOUR LIFE

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