I messed up on my first date?

Not worth it . She seems shallow in a way . If you get what im tryna say. In your case you desevre a second chance && to keep in contact with her. shes not worth it if you ask me. you need to start over with her or you need closure by ending it once and for all by talking..

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not gonna lie, every relasionship is differnt online. liek i hate my friend's freind, Tony, b/c he's super sarcastic and rude but online, i dont get his sarcasim and stuff. You cant type sarcasim on the comp or show personality. anyway, she should understand that relasionships are so much differnt than online b/c words only go so far to a person'as persoanlity without writing a book about the person

but u guys talked on teh phone an dit went well right so u shoudl tel her the first impression was enternet, then teh phone and i realized she was so far, better than any of the girls you've talked to or dated that you didnt want ot mess things up. u can say " online, you can take time to think of what to say next, on the phone, you can talk and not worry about facial expressions or body language, but in person, its all very differnt. u can saw u got nervouse and when u looked at her you go tmor enerouse. maybe you should try skype first before you meet again. its a online camera thing where u can talk to each other through camera. me and my ex did it through long distance relationship. u can give sarcasi or jokes and if u need 2 tak a break u can get up and walk out of the rooma dn collect yourself b4 u go back again to talk.

i mean ever notice the best way 2 break up is in person even though its harder? well being in person is harder. anyway explain that to her. ask her if she'll consider skype and if that goes well maybe try another date ( i recommend hanging out with your friends and her friends and share a good few laughs and then when your friends leave 1-2 hours after, u guys can hang out by yourselfs so that you can talk about things friends brought up and if theres uncomfortable silence you can just refer back to what a friends said. if she likes that then go on a real date with her without friends later)

hope all goes well

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I kind of did the exact same thing as you. I've met people I knew through other friends who I've talked to on the internet. Usually you'll get a whole bunch of expectations and if they're not really met... People really act different in real life, and maybe even some of your quirks threw her off. If she's really not going to accept you for who you are, then there's no use for it. Of course you're going to be that nervous. I don't know why she wouldn't realize that. You should decide now weather to fix it, ask her out, or give up. I wouldn't quite recommend the third option. Asking her out now and getting rejected, you'll get over it. If she's honestly not interested in you, then don't waste your time (unless you want a painful friendship).

So you messed up on your first date. It won't be your last. Don't go gettin obsessed with this one girl. You just met her online and on the phone. She wasn't very tactful when she told you what she thought of you, but she did tell you. Move on. Meet someone else, and don't rush into meeting in person IF you're going to use the internet. Take some time. You sound like a nice person. She's the one that messed up. You tried, and you're just not her type.

Keep looking. Things don't happen by magic. It takes time. It's her loss.

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if first impressions really matter to her, then she is a superficial female..meaning don't even bother getting back in touch with her...

of course you are going to be nervous the first time you meet someone in person that you are into. she should have overlooked that and given you a second chance...

u can think about her but do not try to contact her by any means if u hhhhhappen to see her behave as admirable as u can but not klike that like u want to impress her just do not take note of her this will help your image to build up and then when u have made up u can move on if u like

first impressions are important:) But a girl that would not understand the reason why you acted feminine or immature because you are nervous or anything.She doesn't deserve you!:)

Beauty is skin deep:))

Hope I helped:))

Well hun ive been there its going to be ok

Just explain to her that you got nervous most girls think this is cute i do <3

awh

no offence but she probally wasnt into dudes like yu

i mean you said yu got dressed up and stuff and she probally like dudes who punk and stuff ahaha

i think yu shud move on and i honestly dont like online dating stuff i think it weird and creepy to meet peoples online but ya.