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Me and my girlfriend got caught having sex by her parents what do i do?

me and my girlfriend got a caught having sex and now her parents demanded that we stop seeing each other. We are maddly in love and continue talking in secret what do i do to get on her parents good side again?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    suck up to them.

  • 1 decade ago

    Some more information is needed, like how old are you? how long have you been together etc etc

    If you are both consenting adults, her parents cant stop you from seeing each other.

    As for trying to get on their good side, I would just leave it alone for a while. You were caught doing their little girl. Only time will heal that one!!

    Next time may I suggest NOT doing it in the same house were the parents are!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    That sucks but thats what happens when you act disrespectfully and do those sorts of things in a parents house. You run the risk of getting caught, and something like this, is so serious for a parent to deal with.

    Especially if you guys are young? Like JR high or high school ages?

    I can tell you my mother would have demanded the same thing. And I'll tell you right now, NOTHING would have changed her mind.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I would lay low for a while and don't go over to her house as much or take her out as often. If you do go to her house stay in the same room with her parents so they don't get suspicious. You could still talk on the phone and vid chat or whatever. Good luck to u and ur girl.

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  • 1 decade ago

    more than likely, you won't. at least, not for awhile. Especially if you're under 18, typically parents don't really like the fact that their children under the age of 18 are having sex or sexual relations. I'd say the first step is for your girlfriend to talk to her parents to try to make them more open minded but often times, they won't budge. sneaking around will definitely make things worse if they found out. it's best to be completely honest about anything and everything. parents are usually acceptable to honesty.

  • 1 decade ago

    ohhhh that must have been a tragic view for them

    i say ... don't ever step foot in that house again, doesn't matter how nice you are, if i was a parent and had the misfortune to see your naked *** on top of my little girl i'd dismiss you just because i wouldn't be able to get that image out of my head

  • 1 decade ago

    wow that's rough...

    well i think the best thing for you to do is to talk to your girlfriend to make sure she's on board, and get together and speak openly with her parents

    it's not like she can get her virginity back. explain that you are in love...this will be difficult to have them listen to; it also depends on how long you've been together and when you started having sex. the longer you've been together, the easier it will be for them to accept that you are together and in love.

    the biggest thing is that you set guidlines for one another and be clear with her parents.

    hope that helps... and that you and girl make it through!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sex is a natural healthy part of life, not up to them if you continue your relationship.

    @ geeze never realized how many pervs are on YA haha

  • 1 decade ago

    explain...

    tell them that you are in love and wanna have sex... (show them the websites in which even 16 y/o's have sex, or nm)

    tell them that if you get married you are gonna do it anyway...

    tell them you were using protections...

    try having sex where someone can't see you, next time, lock the door ;D

  • eyJude
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    you need TO MAN UP... and go to her father and have a talk with him. Tell him how you feel about his daughter... and that YOU ARE USING PROTECTION.

    this will work if you are in your 20's but if you are in your teens then you might have a problem... but I would go in for a talk anyway!

  • 1 decade ago

    no sex till marriage.

    but if u must, do us all a favor, and do it in the TUB

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