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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

My friend told my other friend my secrets....?

My friend (Lets call her Red for now) told my other friend (lets call my nicer friend Green) some of my secrets, Green told me not to tell Red but i want to tell her because i want to tell her how its made me feel, the secrets were quite big. I no that Green wont tell anybody but its just the fact that Red told her thats making me angry/upset.

So do you think i should tell Red how i feel and that she shouldnt have done it or shouild i keep it quiet?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I think you should confront red not harsely but just ask her why she did it give her a chance to explain herself. If you want to tell her how you feel you jolly well go and tell her how you feel.and good luck to you

    Hope it helped :)

    x

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Green asked you not to tell Red that she told you, so don't go against Green's will; it will make everything more difficult. Keep talking to Red minimum, but not so minimum that she knows something is up. Don't tell her any secrets. I had a "friend" like this once, apart from she would shout my secrets out in the middle of a lesson. I really trusted her ¬¬

    So, i think you should keep quiet about it >.<

  • 1 decade ago

    Keep quiet otherwise you will be behaving exactly like your friend Red. Green is a good friend and just wants you to know that you should stop telling your secrets to Red. If you should say anything, to Red, it will become a vicious and unending circle, because she will confront Green, who will confront you again........ Let it go, not worth the aggro.

  • 1 decade ago

    Red betrayed your trust. You have all the right to tell her how you feel. If you still want to be friends with Red be careful about what you tell Red, now you know how much you can trust Red.

    Hope it works out for the best.

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  • 1 decade ago

    If she told Green she probably has told others. Don't mention Green's name when you confront her and just tell her that you know that she has not kept her promise to you that your secrets were safe with her and how much that hurts you. There is no good reason for someone sharing someone else's deepest secrets when they are entrusted to you unless personal safety or the safety of others is at stake. Good luck and God Bless.

  • 5 years ago

    Why have secrets and strategies? Act as once you're telling all of us once you talk to a minimum of one. Technically that's like broadcasting. maximum of it is gossip besides. i be conscious of it is complicated, yet attempt to not be drawn up in the gossip, or perpetuate the gossip. some human beings make it an occupation to create gossip or translate gossip to serve their pastimes. some all of us is only down remarkable sadistic while it consists of trashing others. some all of us is only down remarkable stupid and not conscious of the wear they are able to do. Get busy applying your strategies for advantageous issues. human beings would be conscious of you for it, and the stable power will leap lower back. motivate your self to be extra advantageous, and inspire others too. that's an excellent potential that takes years to enhance. Gossip short circuits imaginitive power. that's a call you have administration over. Emotional power is wasted, so, only forgive and brush it off.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just ignore it what Red told to green . She had broken the rule of friendship so make her pay for it

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  • 1 decade ago

    YES. Tell her. Friends should not tell secrets if they have been given them to keep. Dont tell this friend anything again!!

  • u should tell her tat u over heard some ppl talking about it and they said tat they hot it from "RED" and if she denies it, and since u know tat she did tell someone then "RED" is not a very good friend..... srry!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yes tell her and speak with she..i'm italien, my mother is english, but I don't speak english, but I stand

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