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friends treat me really badly?

im in year ten and lately, my closest (and only) friends have been treating me really badly. i havent done anything to them though. im always nice, i help them when they need help, i never tease them or whatever and i listen to them. i dont know what ive done wrong but they treat me like s**t. they always try and ditch me and make it obvious that they are telling secrets right in front of me but never tell me anything. they leave me out of everything as well! whenever i speak up about something they look at me like im from another planet so i have learnt to just not say anything. i try so hard but i dont know what ive done to get them to hate me. we used to be so close but lately, they have been real b*tches. please dont tell me to get new friends because theres no way i can make new friends in year ten and dont tell me to hang by myself because i dont like being alone. what am i supposed to do?? i cant take it any longer.

Update:

btw i cant really avoid them because they are in my class

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I had this same problem... Trust me, the best thing to do IS to start talking to other people. If you don't, you're going to be wondering why you ever wasted time with them in the first place, and you'll regret it. It is possible to make new friends. You deserve better. If they don't enjoy your company, why are spending time with them? You're obviously not enjoying theirs.

    Moving on is the best thing you can do.

    Source(s): Exact same thing happened to me.
  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    You should tell this friend of yours that you sense a change in the way that she has been acting towards you and that it's bothering you. You say that you fear she will turn against you or get others to turn against you, but ask yourself "Do I really want a "best friend" who I am unable to confide in and tell if I have a problem with her?" Remember, it's the quality of a friend that makes a difference, not the quantity of friends you have around you. There's no sense in calling someone a friend if you cannot be yourself around them. Hope this advice helped.

  • 1 decade ago

    okay, if you don't want it that way. Better get a gun and shoot yourself or get some rope and hung yourself...

    Wtf! You call them your friends and that's how they are treating you??

    The least thing you can do is talk to them and ask what's really the problem is. If it involves you and you are not aware of it ask for apology. If you got nothing to do with the situation and they are just doing that for a prank, spunk their as*.

    Be cool let the other be friend with you if you can't make new friends just be friendly in all ways.

  • Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    they're bitches

    it's not that hard making friends, if you're doing any electives, talk to some other poeple in those, join a sport... do something out of school so you can have friends out of school

    if you want to stay friends with them then do something that will mpress them, make yourself look better then them... do something that's they're gonna want to know more about and want to talk with you

    get your closest friend out of those friends alone and ask them how life's been, talk to her but don't make it look like your trying to get something out of her

    btw you probably didnt do anything wrong, it's just the way girls act in high school, don't let it change your personality or anything... don't become a ***** like them just to impress them

    if it's really bad tell your parents and you can move schools and find new friends

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  • If you don't like the way they're treating you then you have three options...

    A. Confront them about it and make them respect you.

    B. Get new friends and forget the losers.

    C. Suck it up and deal with it.

  • they dont sound like real friends get out meet new people

  • 1 decade ago

    Get new friends.

    I got new friends in year 10, twice.

    It's not hard.

  • 1 decade ago

    GET SOME REAL FRIENDS

    Source(s): KATPERSON
  • 1 decade ago

    there is a way!! get new friends! or man up and confrot them bitches~~

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    find real friends.

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