what do you think? is he worth it?

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well i've been dating this guy since last year july. but at that time he had a girlfriend of six year..  but he cheated on her with me but i didn't know of her until a week before she had to goo study abroad,,  but i didn't care cause at that time i just used  him for something..

but then when she left he called me again and after 2 months we i started to really like him and  then he cheated on me with this other girl who he had been seeing for  more then 3 years which again i didn't knew about her.. so i broke it off..  after 2 weeks we started to se each other again i forgived him but i never forgotten what he did so i had mayor trust issues with him december he went to colombia to rehab antd after he came back this march we went together again and it's really nice  butt i still have my trust issues and i broke it off  but when i did that he cried and said like whyy etcc paybacks is a ***** blah blah etc...  he cals me  everydayy he said that he as changed but i don't think soo cause he went like 4 months rehab.. etc butt i just can't trust him but i see he really cares for me so do you think he is worth it? i don;t think soo butt i just feel soo sryy for him and i do miss him but i don't want to go back to him.. but just asking what would you do?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

From my experience, if a guy cheats on another girl with you he'll cheat on you with another girl. Simple as that.

phelista · Answer

follow your heart.
 if he really loved you he wouldn't have done it in the first place.
 feeling sorry for him because, you broke it off, shouldn't make you obligated. it just puts you back in the same predicament.
trust is the structure of any relationship, without it everything comes tumbling down around you. if you can't trust him, it just makes your life miserable living with him. why bother.

? · Answer

i didnt even bother reading all of it, no matter what the circumstances he is definately not worth it your better then that to get with some player. just dont rush it and you'll find someone better if anything, id just keep him as a booty call! haha

it&#39;s just me · Answer

No, he is not worth it. Let him care as a friend. He has already tampered with your trust. Don't give him the rope to hang yourself.

Lauren :] · Answer

ok well i think that you two should stay seperate and well just move one i mean even though he went to rehab it dosnt mean he changed so yeah thats what i think

NC · Answer

People do not change! Remember this.  We just get better in hiding stuff but no people do not change.

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