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pretty weird scenario...?

me and my best friend met this girl last summer, she said she was 17 but we've found out she's 23 'cause of some comment on her facebook page. we asked her if it was true and she got really upset and apologized for lying. apparently she's bipolar and "missed out" on being a teenager 'cause the medication wasn't right. she's feeling better now but wants to reclaim the lost years and relive them. confusing, but she said she missed out on all the parties, the random phases, dating, the "normal" stuff.

then she said something about being too old to be immature with people her own age, since they've all been there and done that, so she lies to fit in with younger people. she thinks she'll be laughed at if they know she's like 5/6/7 years older.

my friend won't speak to her now, she thinks she's mental, but i feel kinda sorry for her tbh.

don't know what to do about it. what do you guys think? x

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    She is STILL young. And I see no problem with hanging out with older people. A lot of my friends are much, much older than me. Age doesn't matter, it's whats inside that counts. Plus, I know several people with Bipolar Disorder, and they are defineitly not "mental." It would be wrong to stop being friends with her for a stupid reason such as this.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well there are clubs where people under 21 aren't allowed so it seams logic that people her age hang out there and party and drink and kiss and the rest she missed out// She is a menthol case ha ha I would stick to your friend and let her solve her life ... I'm not mean but think better she could be a pedophile killer menthol crazy etc. Healthy normal people would NOT do that!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    I went to a 40'S party at the weekend, there was puke gushing, fighting, nudity, adultery and mindless trashing....and that was just me!

    I'd say the age thing is not quite right, give her a wide berth and if you see her in the street whisper then point and then all laugh loudly.

  • 1 decade ago

    At 23 your partying days aren't exactly over (I did my teenage partying in my 30s!) so it sounds a bit fishy to me. she sounds like someone that would be a very high maintenace friend, by all means keep in touch with her but you I don't see how you can really trust anything she says now, and I wouldn't tell her any of my secrets.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Thats weird.

    Well it's your choice, if shes one of them people who are older but act really young and cool then why not just hang out with her for a bit.

    If you think its best to be like your friend and stay away then do that.

    Its totally your choice.

    x

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    She seems a little messed up and needs to seek some help. You can still have a good friendship with her, just be careful. She's already lied to you and her explanation seems a little strange.

  • 1 decade ago

    What your doing is great, your listening to her, accepting her that's all you need to do. Nothing you can do about your friend having a hang up about the bipolar girl.

    Dave

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    why dont you just try being friends with her your friend doesnt have tou get to know her better if shes really mental then forget about her xox

  • 1 decade ago

    well i would try to help her go back .take her to some clubs and let her have fun you go with her to make sure she does not do anything to bad just let her be herself for once . well if you have any more questions go to my web site and write me

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