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Aixela95
Aixela95 asked in Family & RelationshipsOther - Family & Relationships · 1 decade ago

This is long but i DESPERATELY need help!!!?

Okay, so i used to be friends with this group but they stopped being nice and ignored me so i went to my other "friends" (and this was about a month ago) so they were cool for a long time. ya know "oh i love you ya wanna go to the movies?" nice. and so this guy from that group has a crush on me and these "friends" (2 girls) thought he was gonna ask me out monday so at lunch i was waiting for my friends (my real ones) And so we walk outside and the girls have the guy who likes me and are linked arms with him and so im like "whats going on" so my other friends tell me that they thought he was asking me out that day so they were trying to stop him and told him a bunch of crap about why he shouldnt and he (i swear) looked like he was about to die! and i forgave one of them but my other friend told me she was saying sorry just because she doesnt want people mad at her. the other one now wants to fight me. and they did this because they thought i'd become a permanent member of the group and they didnt want that because they thought i was annoying for hanging with them but i had nowhere else to go. so the girl who wants to fight me turned like 17 people against me and I DIDNT DO CRAP TO ANY OF THEM!!!!! please tell me what i should do!!!! please dont tell me "ignore them" because thats not gonna work!!!!!! HELP!!!

ps im 13 and in 7th grade

Update:

im not saying i want them as my friends i just need to know how to deal!!! this girl talks smack about me and I know because she looks at me and the person she talks to looks at me!!!!

Update 2:

hamstercameron2-I SAID NOTHING ABOUT DATING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Update 3:

i dont want to fight her! fighting isnt the answer! plus i dont want to get suspended! fighting goes on your permanent record!!!!

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  • gone country
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    IF she starts to beat you up, you need to defend yourself. this will not go on your record if you explain what happened. as for the rest, you should find all the friends you can who are on your side or indecisive. put them further onto your side. tell them everything those other girls have ever done to you that was mean. i hope it all works out! :)

    -lily

  • Brookewilson
    1 decade ago

    If I were you I would date that guy.. because then you can just hang out with him and you don't have to deal with those stupid girls.. and plus he will defend you and stick up for you!

    OH AND I agree with you about the whole fighting is not the answer, but bring pepper spray with you and if she tries to beat you up USE IT! it would be really funny. I have always wanted to use mine

  • -♥
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    What is this Mean Girls? Obviously they aren't your friends, find some genuine people to hang out with.

    Source(s): Try to ignore them. Act like they aren't worth your time. If that doesn't work, kick the crap out of them. It worked for me =] I had 10 girls who wanted to fight me. I kicked one girls ass big time in front of everyone and they didn't bother me a bit afterwords.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Please...listen to me....dating in 7th grade is a really bad idea. I did it, and it screwed me up pretty badly. You all have hit puberty, but it doesn't mean you're ready for a relationship.

    Source(s): It screwed me up really badly....my grades dropped when I was dumped....
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    They aren't your friends. End of story. Act like you don't care.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    When she goes up to you to "beat you up" show her what she came for.

    ..

    Curb stomp her.

    :D

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    find true friends [=

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