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Is it ok for me to be mad that my ex-bf of 8 months started dating someone else two weeks after we broke up?
I thought i was over him. So if im this pissed about the situation does that mean that im not or is it totally normal cuz its such an asshole thing to do?
14 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
well by brekaing up w/ him youhave to accept that he can do that.....i think it's more of a you want to bethe first one going out w/ someone new and he beat you to it..sure its not a contest or anything but it'd feel so much better....
It happened to me too I had a bf for a year but then he started liking someone else after 2 weeks....I didn't like him..but it's almost like i was offended he liked osmeone else so quickly and i didnt...
i think you are over him its just you are alittle offended dont worry about it...just go on w/ life hope i helped
- 1 decade ago
I don't think you are mad,how bout hurt?You have an emotional connection with him,for woman that is not an easy thing to get over.He wase't in to you any more,the connection is over for him.Besides what better way to start getting over the last connection but to start a new one.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You're definitely not wrong to be mad. If you guys had true feelings for each other, he shouldn't have went out and got a new gf right away. Its an inconsiderate thing to do. You should forget about him because he's so not worth it.
- 1 decade ago
That is a legitimate response...but you are going to look very immature if you act on your emotions and call him out on it. It sucks seeing your boyfriend be with someone new, no longer how long you've been broken up, whether you are over him or not.
Just ignore them, and everything relative to them. It sucks, and it was a very immature move on his part...but take the higher road and pretend to not care.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
Depends how serious you were. He is most likely using her as a rebound to make you jealous. I would be upset, it takes longer than 2 weeks to get over something like that, especially if you see them on a daily basis, and he is rubbing that in your face.
Time will heal all wounds, just ignore that ****!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
It's his life. If you let him go, then you really can't be mad if he moved on. Likely if he is a good guy, he is trying his hardest to get over you and putting his faith in a new girl, trying to forget painful memories of you, because he too still loves you.
On the other hand, if he really is over you this fast, then I don't think that he would really be that good for you.
Source(s): Experience. - 1 decade ago
You have a right to be angry. I'm sure it seems like he wasn't fazed with your relationship and you have all the right to be upset. But he doesn't see it that way. No, you're not an asshole.
But it would be a good idea to try not to get bothered with it.
- 1 decade ago
It's not that you still want him, no one wants to feel replaceable. It's a blow to your ego. Trust me, this will pass. Everyone has been there, survived and went on to bigger and better things. Don't do as he did and look for a replacement. Better yourself, be happy with yourself and let whatever happens happen.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Its highly common cause you either A0 still have feelings for him or B) you havent completely moved on and your still recovering from the shock of breaking up with him but i say thats hes already moved on and so should you unless you have true feelings for him.
- Sarah TownenLv 61 decade ago
you can be mad, you can be anything you want
but ultimately you have no right to have your feelings change his
don't get me wrong, this sucks
i've been on the end you are on
it totally sucks
BUT if you were to move on and get a new boyfriend and he was mad....wouldn't it tick you off? i think you'd be like, "move on"
given you still have feelings for him you might not see it that way now... but just consider it
best of luck