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should be familiar to most of you... how do I turn a flirtatious friend into a devoted lover? I'm forgetting..?
I'm forgetting steps of attraction.. I've really grown fond of this girl and I know she's attracted to me. She's married going thru a seperation and plays the card that she doesn't have the emotional mindset, blah, blah. I went in for a tap kiss and she was shocked yet reluctant to have another.. I could tell she likes being around me but I have to take a stand on what I want and at the same time give her all the reason and fair opportunity to willingly give in to me.. And in no way do I want to mistake her kindness for liking me so I have to be tactful in drawing out of her the sexual attraction she has for me and maximize it. Hope this was clear and thorough cause I really like this girl and would really appreciate some pointers.
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- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Okay dude, you seem WAYYY too arrogant about this. Yes, she's probably attracted to you but you HAVE to take your time with her especially since she's going through a seperation. It's obviously not something she can just deal with and hop in the bed with you...a marriage is ending...think about the emotional stress that puts on two people. I'm just saying be more understanding because the more you do, the more comfortable she'll feel with you, the closer she's able to get to you.
If you like her and really want her, listen to me. Take your time with her. She needs more comfort than anything. Don't kiss her again until she goes for it or asks for it. Until then, what you can do though is, (when you're saying goodbye or if you get the chance to hold her) kiss her on the cheek. Make sure you're very subtle with how you do things with her and each time try to go a little bit further (you hug her randomly one day, hug her from behind the next, put your arm around her the following). But like i said, take it slow so she can get used to you. Good luck.