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Is he going to leave me?

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years. For the most part, I felt secure and extremely happy in my relationship until October of last year when I found out he has cheated on me. I forgave him and he made a huge effort to make amends. Recently, I have moved in with him temporarily until I move back to the U.S (he is British and I could not obtain a working visa after college). We have lived together for month and I leave in a few days. He told me that he would save money while I was gone and bring me back to marry him and until then, would visit me in the states. However, since I moved in with him, he hasn't been interested in me sexually at all and we never hang out. He's just as affectionate as ever but I get a vibe that he can't wait for me to leave.

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  • 1 decade ago

    well, only you can answer that...

    you seem uncertain...

    don't fret now....

    it must be really hard for you..

    but don't despair...

    everything happens for a reason, even bad experiences...

    why don't you talk to him???

    good communication leads to a committed and healthy relationship..

    if he is willing to listen and willing to change for you to feel better, then he loves you....but if he is not listening at all...

    then....it is best for you to leave him and just let him go...

    it's hard, i know, but you have to do it for your own sake...

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