Should I watch a chick flick called 91/2 weeks with my wife?

In the often impersonal city of New York, the capital that never sleeps and is filled with the shadows and secrets of its citizens, a man and a woman start a sexually orientated affair.

John, a wealthy and sexy businessman, seduces a beautiful art assistant, Elizabeth, who is recently divorced after a three year marriage.

He comes across as funny and adventurous, but it becomes clear that that's not all John is into. He plays strange sexual games with Liz, blindfolding and putting ice on her body, making her crawl on the floor to him and "hypnotizing" her with the sound of a watch he gave her, asking her to think of him touching her everyday at twelve o' clock.

Elizabeth's world is thrown into chaos as she both hungers for John sexually, but wants to know more about who he really is, but he's unwilling to give her any kind of hint as to where he came from. She tries to introduce him to her circle of friends, but he flat out refuses, telling her all he wants is the nights with her and she can have the days with her friends.

Slowly she becomes increasingly dependant on John, he feeds her in the morning, bathes her, takes care of her and makes love to her in ways she's never experienced. She finally realises that their relationhip is unhealthy, driven to the edge when John starts to have sex with a prostitute in front of her in a dingy motel room.

She can't think straight anymore, she's desperatly unhappy, and even more confused and upset when her best friend begins a relationship with her ex husband.

In the end she leaves John, telling him its too little too late when he tries to tell her about his background. When she walks out the door and into the apartment complex courtyard, he whispers to himself that he loves her and that she had better come back in 50 seconds. She doesn't though, and the movie ends with her walking down the lonely streets of the city, crying and thinking about the fact that for nine 1/2 weeks she had an erotic affair with a perfect stranger.

If you would have had the brains to Google the name of the film you would have figured it isn't a chick flick pretty quickly. Have you been living under a rock for the past 15 years?

Well, she's right. It's a pretty erotic film, my husband and I watched it together.

So sit back, relax,

and watch and learn!

yeah watch it, not because you really care if it's going to be good, watch it because your wife wants to watch it with you

If you like spreading food on her body and eating it off then go ahead.

sure