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Why should i trust him, or wait for him?
Ok so i've known this guy since we were both really little. He's three years older than me, and he's been a really good friend. So in January he started hanging out with me more, and he and i started a band . . . . it was great at first . . . i think i even fell in love with him. He came over to my house like everyday and hung with my parents, played with my baby sister, he even came and helped me babysit my little cousins. He's Mr. Perfect! But in April he left for Australia. He was gone for 2 weeks, and when he came back, it was weird. Like he didn't care about me at all. He told me he had a girlfriend in Australia and he loved her and couldn't even be my friend or talk to my any more. So i quit the band, and avoided him. Now he won't stop txtin, emailin, callin, and randomly showing up where i am. He says he loves me and that he doesn't love his gf and that he just needs me to wait, but im not sure i want to, and i don't know what else to do. Any advise you could give would be great! Thanx!
4 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
You answered my question so I'm gonna answer yours!
In my opinion this guy sounded amazing at first but when people travel they can change. What he did to you is horrible. He could've at least been your friend. Now he's coming back and saying he's in love with you and that you just need to wait? Excuse my french but that's bull****! If he was really in love with you he wouldn't have gotten a new girlfriend, he would've stayed your friend through everything, and he wouldn't tell you to wait!
This is completely up to you but that is what I would do! You deserve someone better!
Please make the best answer I need the points!
- 1 decade ago
ok i have some what of the problem my self and im waiting on her and why u quit his band if u left my band it would make me fill as maybe he he thinks u dont want to be near him any more. also austrialia is were i am from so i know it can be a very cool place to be and the girls are p\cute. so just wait a few. its like 3000 miles away it want work.
- 1 decade ago
He wants you to wait while he is in a relationship doing who knows what?! Ok that's just plain selfish and dumb!!
If he breaks up with her and you trust him to do this then you could forgive him for his previous mistake and move on with him.
Otherwise, it's obvious he wants to fool around while you stay back at home waiting. Not worth it!!
Good luck!
- 1 decade ago
my advice is dont wait. or pretend you have found someone else, like he did to you. i know that you probably really care for him, but what he did was really shitty. you are younf and there are other fish in the sea. if its meant to be, you two will find each other again.
