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pls help me....really bad situation....dunno wat to do!?

see...i like this guy like crazy and i thot he like me too....but i was chatting with him tday nd i asked him if he likes ny gals? and he said he did...someone who is actually a gud frend of mine....i dnt know how to cope up with this situation....i feel like my worlds fallin apart....

how to cope in such a situation???

Update:

p.s-my frend is really sweet...nd so is he...

and i cant tell him...cz i really think he like her

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    HEY!

    THE GIRL MIGHT BE YOU!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Great! you have a situation of choice or decision. Gud friend when you said, says that you are really a gud person when you are giving it a thought in this kind of situation.

    How to cope? Simple, Just play along. Continue to befriend that guy but with friendly instincts, know more abt him in your own way also try to know what your gud friend thinks about him, how she feels about him is more important? (If she is ur gud friend, she will definitely tell you the truth...never let her know ur feelings that you have for him for the time being...:))

    Once you have ur info in hand...Next step is upto you, you are intelligent enough to understand that there will be a decision to make, to make with your heart,so you do it....UFFFF its a big process right...

    I have an alternative too... Be calm,cool down...You have just an attraction, let it be at that level for some time, try to understand urself...its pretty normal for a woman to feel that way. Why not enjoy this hide and seek situation for sometime??

    I am sure you know very well what to do now...Take care, any issue dont forget we all friends at yahoo answers are there for you...

  • 1 decade ago

    The old love triangle 'eh? With you stuck in the wrong side of it.

    Ask yourself these questions:

    1. Is your friend committed?

    2. Or is she single too now?

    3. Does she know that our interested in him?

    4. Is she interested in him? If yes, u may have to either compete or take a dive for your friend of come to a common agreement that you both will dump him(mentally) and look for different guys

    Try to talk and find out why he likes the girl and maybe slowly hint that there are others who like you whom he should have a look at (like you). If he still doesnt get it, dont waste your time (i know its harsh, but its better than wasting your time on him :( )

    Love triangles don't end nicely u know, so try not to get caught on the wrong side of it. All the best.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    First, i might circulate on your dermatologist and notice what they say/advise. next, if your self wide awake approximately it i might attempt to conceal it with some makeup. What are you a woman? Oh properly, i will inform you what to do besides. For makeup i might purchase the two neutrogena or almay type simply by fact they are the only styles of makeup on your epidermis. the different ind will make it look worse. i might placed on concealer, commencing place, and powder, for max risk-free practices. i might additionally make advantageous that your showering on an universal basis and washing your face 2 cases an afternoon. and additionally attempt to apply a face wash it is very made for zits. additionally make advantageous that your linens pillowcases, sheets, bedspread, etc) are clean. And once you wash your face i might use a particular towel to dry your face with. you ought to not use the towel which you dry your arms with, one your face additionally. And finally be certain you have a healthful weight loss plan, and drink a lot of water. i relatively desire this helps!! i understand zits sucks. :/

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Tell Him You Like Him, Trust Me, it Makes You Feel So Much Better. + He Might Be Trying Make You jealous. Good Luck Hun;x

    Source(s): Experience; Myself (: x
  • 1 decade ago

    I tell u something there is no possibility that he will say you yes to you(as said by you) . and in case you are successful in getting her then your love will be a one sided love....see continue your friendship with him and tell your heart that there are some things in life which are not made for us...so we should not think about getting it.....!!hope u will understand and may God give you power to face...best of luck and take care...

  • 1 decade ago

    ouch... the solution to this would be to try to ignore him as much as possible... slowly the infatuation will go away.

    or u can ask ur frend whm he likes to help u out.

    she can act all bitchy an al while u give him ur shoulder to hold on.

  • 1 decade ago

    Find somebody that lyks u and start flirting w/ them. It'll make u feel wanted and u'll feel better about yourself.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    lol ofcourse he's not gonna tell you straight up he likes you (that is if he does) but you can win him back! talk to him alot, flirt around, touch him alot. hopefully he will see you :)

  • 1 decade ago

    if she like him and he knows it then sorry but its too late

    but...

    if she doesnt or he dont know if she does

    just tell him "you know how you said that you like____

    well what if i told you that i liked you?"

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