question for guys ages 19 to 25 or so who have ever been attracted to older women?

i am 19 years old, and normally most guys my age would jump on a deal like this. if all your looking for is to have a little fun and get ****** by a younger guy, just tell him that. there is not alot of stuff more sexually arousing then an older women telling you she wants to **** you. try not to make it into a dinner and a movie thing tho, because that could make things a little complicated. sometimes guys my age just dont know how to talk to an older women, because we dont have the opportunity that often. just make it short and sweet, set a date and time for this escapade to go down. the more simple you make it, the better it will be for both of you. just dont get your hopes up on the sex being amazing, but you could get lucky!! have fun and email me on how it goes, this is an interesting story.

oh and one more thing, using text messaging, or email/myspace/facebook would probly be an easyer way of getting it started. the guy might get choked up from being so suprised/excited if you confront him in person.

I have been attracted to an older women before and I am 22, however, about mid-30's things start getting unusual, so whether or not you sleep with him may depend just how much older you are.

Now, I don't think you should sleep with anybody else besides your husband insofar as you are married. If you are upset for what he has done or you simply want to have sex with other men, you probably should not be married. HOWEVER, if in your best judgment you think it is a good idea, then go for it.

You just need to be up front with him about it. He is younger so his default position will be to assume you may not be interested.

Just say. That's all.

Honestly, I'm personally never look on woman's age (sure if she looks underage, I will ask). I always look on how she looks and how she behaves. I had women 5 years younger and 10-15 years older (if she looks nice). So that's not a problem. Just make a first step and you'll see. No long lines. Just say what you want, that's all what you need to do. :)

Good luck! :)

BTW I never have anything more than just friendship with married women. This is wrong! My opinion.

2 wrongs do not make it right. It would be different if you were single and younger was attracted to you then anything goes. You need to figure out why he had the affair and not ask this type of question that would solve nothing...

Just let him know that your husband is going to be away and you'd like him to join you for a few drinks at the local bar to keep you company. You'll get a feel for it as the evening progresses. Good luck.

it would help if you included your age. i was interested in older women but now that i'm 39 it is getting harder to stay interested in older women. it won't hurt you a bit to just come out and ask him to do you know what. whats he going to say? no? if he says yes, tell him that that is all the two of your are going to do.

i would help you but i live too far away from you. lol.

I have always had serious crushes on girls about 1-2 yrs older than me. I have noticed some do do it.

Why don't you ask him to go have a drink with you after work, and see if one thing leads to another. People tend to be brave and flirtatious when they've been drinking "liquid courage." It's worth a try. *shrug*

well if you notice that he's kinda attracted to you anyway just simply approach him and say you want to spend a little time with him. but if he is shy and you don't know for sure still ask if he's doing anything later. chances are he's been wanting to get with you in the beginning but was too shy to ask.

umm only the ones who have more plastic than flesh (or more money than a paper press) on tv. then again I met this 30ish year old woman the other day who was quite nice looking....hmm