What is the worse scheme your SO has pulled?

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Two weeks had passed.  I was enraged at my ex husband and was having no sex.  He came home with a 750 BMW.  Once in the house, he addressed me and said: "go take a look at your new car".  In the middle of the excitement, I paused to think that for sure this meant sex that night - he was going to expect it.  I was still livid.  The moment came and I was feeling vile cause I didn't want to give in but he had just purchase this beautiful car for me so it happened.  

Next day I was all peppy cause I had a lot of driving around to do running errands.  That evening he arrived  and  told me to take the car back to the dealer first thing in the morning.  His friend (the owner) had lend him the car.  Knowing I had an obsession with BMWs, he used it to get sex and told me so.  I have never felt so defiled.

That said, I'm curious to know if someone has had a similar or worse experience.

puk · Accepted Answer

thats akin to rape in my  books. you  would not  have had sex  with him otherwise? dont feel  foolish either. he is a manipulating man who has equally dubious friends.
take a quick look around you and think quietly to  yourself. whew glad it happened that way now i never have to sleep  with him again. its over.....

my ex used my illness as an excuse to  sleep  with my  best  mate. she is now ex and so is he... with morals like that they belong together. you however have a right to  choose. 
choose well choose wisely
enjoy other men more respectful ones

Angie · Answer

All I am getting from your statement is that you've been deliberately withholding sex from your husband as punishment and now you're upset because he tricked you into having sex.

Sounds like that's fair.  Sorry, but sex isn't a weapon.  Can't say I blame him.

Edit: Ok...I thought you were implying you were withholding but he tricked you, LOL!  I thought if that were the case it only seemed fair.

Anonymous · Answer

Oh, that was sooooooo gooooood! Serves you right!

My wife has ventured to the dark side a few times. I'd rather not post her problems here in this exact response.

Dunno · Answer

What is wrong with your husband?  Didn't he get mad at you for calling him on on an "emergency" only to find you naked in the pool?  

To answer the question:  something like this has never happened to me.

Bears Mom · Answer

No I haven't had experiences like that but that is because unlike you and your husband we don't play head games with each other.  You two need to grow up.

? · Answer

Why is it so difficult for him to make love to you?  Why does he have to resort to such trickery?  Why do you not act like a wife? What is wrong with you?

The Little Army Wife · Answer

You nabbed a real winner.

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What is the worse scheme your SO has pulled?

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