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I've known this girl my whole life. She's my dads best friend's daughter. We only see each other about once a month when we go to these 4 wheeling trips, and sometimes my family will go to her house and have a bonfire with them and their neighbors. Up until a few months ago, I was too scared to talk to her but then I manned up somewhat and asked her for her number. Since then, we've been texting each other every day from the time we get up till the time we go to bed. We really stated to connect, and it got a lot easier to talk to her whenever I saw her. I haven't called her yet because I'm still too big of a pussy to do it. I think I'm waiting to see if she likes me. She will be able to drive in July, and we're going to go ride 4 wheelers and hang out together. I'm not sure if I could consider these dates or anything, but I seriously need any sort of advice.

Alex O · Accepted Answer

If anything you should acctually get the courage to call her. Usually a girl wants to hear a man's voice to see that he's confident. In your case with all the texting, she really is interested in you. If the both of you have begun to share private things with each other like both your and her likes and dislikes then there is an interest between the both of you. One thing that you should definitely do is call her!!!

I was like that with my girlfriend, but we didn't text each other, we talked on the phone from dusk till dawn. Now not only is she my girlfriend, but we're having plans to get married.

Honestly, dude, talk to her. If she has spoken to you about things any girl wouldn't talk to a guy about, then you're in the clear to start making your move to claim her. Yeah I said claim her, because you don't want some other prick to come and take away your girl before you get with her. That happened to me and it wasn't a good day when it happend.

As for the 4 wheeling, if it's mostly just the 2 of you, then yes they are dates. Just remember to also take her out to eat.

1349z · Answer

if your texting with her from the moment you wake up untill you go to sleep, she likes you, shes just waiting for you to make the move probably. if she had no interest in you or thought you were a wierdo, you wouldnt be "connecting" and talking to you all day, everyday.

the 4 wheeling trips are a date in a sense, you guys are getting to know each other, talking, joking, shooting the ****. have you hung out with her outside of these family events? ask her what shes doing one of these weekends, see if she wants to see a movie or go to a party with you, have a few drinks, burn the green if your into that.

Anonymous · Answer

Dude, go for it..the worst thing she can do is tell you no..in that case you can remain friends..hey, what kinda quad do u have and where do u ride it at? Me and my bf ride too..(well, he drives and I ride on the back).I just broke my elbow about 5 weeks ago cuz we wrecked on it..so be careful out there!

Anonymous · Answer

well when u guys see each other again. tell her how u feel and ask her out on a date.

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds good.

I think you two should date

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