i like 3 guys...how do i choose?

it doesn't sound pathetic at all, every person has their own needs. i would not go with guy 1, obviously if you broke up there was a reason, and it will just happen again. guy 2 might make it awkward for your brother and your brother may get defensive and become less friends with him which will make it awkward for you. i would go with guy 3.

hope this helps

I myself being 17 and have been in a very serious relationship for over a year and a half now can help you with this... as i have had this dilema before. you have to trust yourself and decide who you like for their personalities and who ur just interested in for looks... believe me that makes a difference. because it sounds like you want something deeper than a fling. i myself have an AMAZING boyfriend sweet caring funny great with family. i think i found mr. perfect, but see i didnt go for looks... im just lucky i got both, hehe. you need to sit down and really think hard about it, cuz one could be your soulmate.

Brightest Blessings and Good Luck

AuroraSkye

First off, is it your decision? are all three waiting for an answer? maybe the one is just being friendly with you because your Brother is his friend, the other one has not even made a move and the past boyfriend sounds like he just wants to remain friends, Don't mistake friendly for wanting you.

Choose a guy for each of these things to see who you like most, which ever guy yoilu like most is the one.

Who gives u the most buutterflies when you first see him.

Who you feel best around( u shouldn't feel like u have to impress a guy)

Who you feel happiest around, and who you smile and laugh most with.

Who you dream and think about most.

Also try this color game to find out how you subconsciously feel about each guy. Choose the guy that each color makes you think of. Don't look at the answers or it will ruin it.

Red-

Orange-

Yellow-

Blue-

White-

Black-

Answers-

Red-the one u truly love, orange-the good firend, yellow- the one that makes you happiest, blue-the faithful one, white- your soulmate, black- your enemy

P.S. I have similar problems with liking more than one guy. I wonder if it's a horoscope thing. Are you a Scorpio like me?

You should open a can of biscuits and cover the dough in chocolate sauce, and then eat the whole mound of gooeyness. Then, while you're still chewing, call one of these dudes up and tell him you love him, but not as much as you love choclatey biscuit dough. Whichever dude doesn't think you're a lunatic...that's the one you pick.

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because if you brake up with your best freind(#1) you might not be able to patch the relationship you once had back up. Also it would be a little wierd to your brother if you were going out with his freind.

well you prob just love 2 of them as a friend and have feelings for both of them but not that way you just care about them alot and there all rlly great i had the same problem cept little diffrent 4 rlly rlly close friends that were girls and i liked them all a ton ive even said i love you to one of them when i dated one but now im with somone else not even one of the 4 friends they helped me out i told the one i could trust the most my problem and she helped me get though it and she figured out i dident like them that way i just cared much for them as a friend though

here's a phrase for you:Friends are the best.I would strongly suggest going out with guy 3 because he knows the most about you and what YOU likeif u dont want to go out with him just yet,then i'd suggest at least keeping an eye on him

calm down...hahaha

just go on dates with each of them. find out of they truly like you. and have conversation with them because at the end of the day, the guy that you want is the guy that youu can talk to even after the fireworks are done. just get to know them. your 17 you have your whole life.

talk to your brother first. that could at least narrow it down. but ultimately you are going to have to choose, and only you can tell. make sure they r ok with u dating casually first too