what if your friend didnt tell you happy birthday?

girl just forget about it, Maybe she forgot or she even might be testing you to see if you would do the same thing to her, so don't go below her level when it comes to that. and yes go to her birthday party and HAVE FUN!! forget the troubles and just have a good time life is too short to be worrying about small problems.

I think if she's your best friend that you should let it slide, and not make an issue of it. Im sure it wasnt intentional. Just because she remembered days before, doesnt mean it didnt slip her mind that particular day. I find it very hard to remember people's birthdays in recent times. I dont write checks anymore, and I dont write the date in my job. I use the calendar on my computer and have no wall calendar, to write things. Sometimes an entire month will go buy without me even noticing. We are not so date conscious any more.

This is Wrong!!! If you family did that would it be right????

Then why should it be any different for her??? SODDddd her!!!!

I mean you can still be her friend but don't ever get to close to people like thAt !!! What does it take to just wish someone happy birthday??????

I'm sorry but something is serriously wronng!!! If my friend did that to me I'd distance myself and make better ones.

maybe she had something going on or maybe she has a terrible memory or maybe she's a plain jerk!

Instead of hurting her back I would try your best to bring it up. Try a joking manner. Or just discretely mention what you did on your birthday or be like "geezus I can't believe we are both going to be 21 now! what a year to look fwd to!" corny, but you get the picture

She may have been distracted, or simply forgot. It's hard, I know, because she's your best friend, however, it's because she's your best friend that you should forgive her. Plan a belated party for yourself with her. Explain that it hurt your feelings, then laugh it off, and tell her she owes you a drink.

You just found out that your bff isn't your bff. A bff wouldn't not mention your birthday unless she was planning a surprise for you. I guess she isn't much of a friend.

u have turned 21, and it is important, but it shouldn't ruin ur freindship. maybe she just forgot. talk to her and tell her it hurt your feelings. but go to her party. treat HER the way you want to be treated. if u don't go it will make things worse.

try to make it a little obvious that it was ur bday

like "i wanted that for my bday but I didnt get it"

if she duznt get the hint, then she's eiither cluless

or she just doesnt care

im sorry i forgot it was ur birthday but i promise ill make it up to you...btw my comp had a virus and my phone was dead (didnt pay the bill) sorry!

maybe she forgot dont dwindle on this too much cuz u dont want something silly to ruin a friendship