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Help!!!!! What should I do?

Okay, I have this group and this girl in my group (Let's call her girl1) told this other girl (girl2) that she isn't allowed in our group anymore because she's 'too fat'. I was outraged by girl1 so I told her: "Who made you in charge?! You can't just kick people out!" She got sooo mad with me and later on, I was one Msn & a few of my friends told me that she was telling everyone on msn to block me and hate me...

The next day I went to my group and sat down with them but girl1 told me to get lost and go to hell so I told her that she can't tell me what to do but then she kicked me & slapped me, she tried to punch me but she missed, I didn't hit her back but then girl2 pushed her over and kicked her... Now girl1 told the principle and blamed it on me that I bashed her up, but I didn't even!!!! The principle won't listen to me!

I can't tell on girl2 because that would be sooo mean and she stood up for me... Now because I catch the same bus as girl1, she always tries to start a fight with me, none of my other friends catch that bus... I don't want to fight her, I'm too scared, even though I have girl2 (who is really strong) on my side, I don't want to!!!

Please help me!! I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!

(Btw I'm a year 7)

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Apparently you have challenged Girl 1's position as leader of the group by standing up for Girl 2. Talk to the other girls in the group and see what their opinion on this is. Chances are they don't want to be ruled by Girl 1 but are too afraid of her. If you find this is the case, then band together and tell girl 1 she is out. If they side with girl 1 then you will be on the out. Remain friends with girl 2 and start your own group. Girl 1 is a bully, and until you stand up to her she will continue to bully you. That does not mean that you have to fight her, but if she throws the first punch, then you need to defend yourself. Seek some help from your guidance counselor at school.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    tell your parents what happened, maybe they could call girl1's parents and talk to them. and your parents could all the school and talk to your princible, girl 1 sounds really mean!

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