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How do i tell my girlfriend she smells?

She is clean in general and i know she washes everyday but her vagina smells really bad. If i go down on her i find it difficult not to gag!

How do i tell her without hurting her feelings?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Without offending anyone, I don't think you should do any of the things mentioned yet.

    Women are very aware of changes in their body odours, so chances are she has noticed this herself but may not know what to do.

    You need to explain to her that you have noticed a change in the smell of her vagina recently. Explain that this could be caused by infection and doesn't mean that she is dirty in any way. Ask her to see her doctor to get it sorted. It could be caused by hormones

    DO NOT tell her just before you have sex

    DO NOT tell her while you are having sex

    DO NOT tell her friends - she will not appreciate that

    DO NOT use accusing tones

    DO assure her that you still find her attractive and that you have her interests at heart.

    Best of luck

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well, that's a hard question! You'll just have to be honest with her, or you will be forever gagging. Tell her how you feel, but be tactful about it. I mean don't say, "Hey, you really smell and it's making me gag!" If she is your girlfriend and you two feel comfortable enough to have sex, then you should feel comfortable enough to talk about all aspects of sex. She may not be aware of the smell. Perhaps you could suggest her using a deodorant, such as Vagisil. Its works really well.

  • 5 years ago

    you're purely going to ought to inform her in a astounding way. If she has received some weight, she may have some folds of pores and skin she isn't washing. some human beings neglet to sparkling their abdomen button and that could want to reason an scent. She might want to have a yeast an infection or maybe she isn't cleansing properly sufficient after going to the lavatory. help her discover out what the project is. If she receives offended, properly, a minimum of you tried.

  • 1 decade ago

    Before you head to the bedroom talk romanticallhy to her and tell her you cant wait to ....to her but you hate the way a womans ...... smells, she might take the hint and wash it or else you dont go down there and if she asks why not tell her youve noticed your throat gets sore afterward.

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  • 1 decade ago

    There's no easy way. Just say, "Babe, I think you're hot, sexy, and I love the way you make me ...(put in phrase). But the way your "down there" smells is not pleasant. It is difficult for me to give you the maximum pleasure you deserve when I am so distracted." and then offer to drive her down to the store for some feminine products. They make stuff to help with this issue! Or, ask her to do a quick wash-up before you two get busy!

    Hope this helps!

  • 1 decade ago

    You could ask her to wipe before she sleeps with you. Make out it's your fault, that you just have a thing about it, and offer to wipe yourself too.... Are you sure it's not just her smell? All women smell pretty strong down there. It's the pheremones.

  • 1 decade ago

    Eww .. that must suck!!! hmm you could try joking around with her about it and maybe she will get the hint somehow.. i'm not sure!

  • 1 decade ago

    um... just be straight forward OR you can hint by giving her friends hints that her vagina smells, that way they can help her smell better.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ask her if she woulnt mind shereing a bath be for you have sex

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    take a shower whit her before you anything ales

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