How do I trust her again?

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There's this girl see, and I fell for her HARD. We went out for a little while and everything was great but then she just changes her mind out of nowhere. Broke me into pieces, and just to make it worse she did it three times in a row. We haven't been talking at all these last two weeks and it's killing me, but it's just to hard to approach her, knowing that she doesn't feel the same way anymore. I know you'll all probably be thinking, you're young, you've got your whole life ahead of you, but all I can think about it Her.

This is the the kind of girl who always has a boyfriend, or some crush chasing her and whenever I think about that it tears me up inside. How do I stop thinking about this? How do I get over her?

Chopsmom · Accepted Answer

Take off your rose colored glasses and look at this girl's behavior.  She has stopped seeing you THREE TIMES already!???  Who does that????
You really should be pissed........
That is NOT the way to treat someone.
This girl does not sound like a person  you really need to be involved with....she sounds very superficial...always having to have someone ...some guy around 
Learn from your mistakes and move on.
You really don't want someone that is so incredibly fickle..or undecisive.  
Keep looking......the right girl is out there!!!
Good Luck!!!!!!

Punchy · Answer

Typical of a young girl always changing their minds.
She is probably seeing someone else.
If she has done this to you three times now you really need to look elsewhere she has got you wrapped around her finger and she knows it.
Do not approach her don't ring her and seem uninterested and give her the cold shoulder I know its hard to do when you like someone but that's what you need to do.

crystalwings321 · Answer

You can't trust someone who loves candy, and has free access to the candy store, to control herself. All the attention from males gives her a natural high and sense of glory. You never will totally get over it. Your first love, will always be remembered and there is a part of your heart you never get back. Give it time, it is really raw right now. Just stay busy. Exercise, I know that sounds weird, but it will help.

Willbewill · Answer

Well Sean you have just experienced what hundreds of men before you have......you have dated someone who was not serious about you.  Now quit wining learn your lessons about what kind of woman not to give your heart to and go do something creative that will inspire a nice girl to want to be with you.

Lil_B4ByLV · Answer

when it comes to love its alwayz going to hurt but you have to decide if she really is worth it. Does she always bring tears or do you have good memories of her. if you just want to get over her find something to do to distract yourself hangout with friends that are reliable get a hobbie something you love doing and if you wanna give it a last shot talk to her tell her how you feel and if she doesn't correspond to your feelings and/or gives you no hopes its her loss and she'll realize that someday trust me

? · Answer

awwwwww....i know it can be really hard.....keep busy...ull notice that time will heal everything.......wudnt u like being with a gurl wholl take care of ur heart rather than breaking it nto pieces over n over again...think bout it...

Grouse mouse · Answer

ya never trust em..didnt your father teach you this...geesh
its one of the first rules in 
secret mens business.
look it up.

Banana · Answer

fall for a new girl. she will come.

. · Answer

why don't you ask her what her problem is? if it is not working, you move on

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