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I need help with my ex-girlfriend?

So back in December, this girl I am really truly in love with, basically gave me the "lets be friend speech." I was crushed. i would'nt talk about it for awhile, and I just wasnt myself for a long, long time. Things got better, but i never let go of her. Im still in love with her, and I really can't think of anyone i'd rather spend my time with. So it's been almost 6 moths since the break-up, and all of a sudden her friends are telling me that shes started thinking about me again... this went on for about 2 or 3 weeks, and then this morning im told that she doesnt like me anymore, but feelings do ocassionally come up.... what should I do? What do I say to her about this? And if shes still having feelings somehow, how do I get her to open up about it?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Wait for her. It sounds as though she has no idea what she wants to do about you: probably she has a few mixed thoughts. Don't get yourself tied up in that until she's ready. Wait for her to approach you. If you get yourself mixed up in her emotional roller coaster, you will probably end up doing more harm than good, and you'll be exhausted besides. Let her figure out her emotions without you, then if she approaches you about your relationship, decide what you want to do.

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