Why is it so hard to find a nice girl? I am 36 years old, educated, successful and can't find a nice girl.?

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I have spent my life doing business and high level transactions. I find that as I get older I would really like to meet Miss Right.  The problem is everytime I see a beautiful, sweet, and really nice girl they are always dating a loser.  What gives ?  I am thinking of going back to Law School or get an Executive MBA from a top school.  Since I don't seem to be meeting anyone to really date.  Guess a little more education would not hurt.  I go to weddings, dancing with friends and stuff but it seems that the more we go to these things I am the only single guy at the events usually.  I'm not bad looking a lot of girls have told me I am very attractive so why can't I meet a nice girl to date.  Anyone who could give some good advice it would be greatly appreciated.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

They're all in love with jerks.

 Maybe it's a good idea to play the hard to get for a while... Once you get the one you like, you can be yourself again, and that will be wonderful.

:)

Mister Answerman · Answer

Perhaps your social life is a bit lacking. Go ball room dancing or to over 30's night clubs. Go bowling or play tennis. Try online dating sites. There are many of them.

Get your Executive MBA  becayuse you will need the extra income when you meet Miss Right! (hehehe) Grrr!

Also, stop being so picky. I have been out with some "large" women and they are quite intelligent and plenty of fun.  Practice dating with some of the not-so-beautiful women. Take them to dinner, the movies or theatre or to a ball game or whatever. Create relationships because you might meet one of their friends who just might be what you are looking for.

Dani · Answer

Try to find a girl in school then ;). I am one of those sweet girls who dates losers, and I wish I would meet an intelligent man who could break me from my cycle, but usually the smart, nice guys are too shy. Hope this helps

bleh · Answer

And at this very moment, there are tons of girls wishing they could find a nice guy. Lol. They're deffinitly out there. I would suggest an online dating site like match.com...I know a lot of people who have met great people..in a couple instances their husbands that way.
--He's not too old Cookie! Geeze.

k_maco · Answer

When you ask a girl out and she tells you "I have a boyfriend"

Tell her "I'm still inviting you"

My advice to you is be 100% honest with yourself and women, and more importantly be a man. Let me clarify. Don't beat around the bush with these girls, tell them "I want to date you!". Say what comes to your mind when you're on dates with them, be interested in getting to know them!, and importantly... be yourself.

? · Answer

the more you want something, the more you are getting away from who you are. there is a time for anything and it seems your time for a serious relationship hasn't arrived yet. Go for your higher degree and stop wasting your time.

Anonymous · Answer

make a move duh? if some girls have called you attractive then ask them out. you better hurry because youre pretty old already

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Why is it so hard to find a nice girl? I am 36 years old, educated, successful and can't find a nice girl.?

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