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How do I tell her how I feel?

I really like a girl who I see everyday on campus at the university I attend. We have many of the same lectures and we're good friends, but I like her more than she knows. I am afraid to spill out my heart to her because of my fear of rejection, plus the fact that after my feelings are out there, it could ruin our friendship. I like the fact that now we are on good talking terms, so I kinda feel close to her, but if I tell her how I feel and she doesn't take it so well, I'm afraid I may lose the connection we already have. Please help-- I don't know what to do and I think if I delay any further, some other guy will snatch her from right under my nose because she's so pretty and she's such a great person to be around.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I say go for it. If we walked through life afraid of rejection we would never get anywhere. Don't let her slip away. go for it she may be the one, but if u never try you'll never know..

    Source(s): Good Luck
  • 1 decade ago

    Try to get into a conversation with her about relationships, that way if you want to tell her how you feel it'll be relative and not just out of the blue. You could also try to butter her up with compliments every now and then- tell her how great a person she is and what you like about her best. I know rejection is something to think about, but what if you didn't tell her how you felt and some other guy had come along? You'd never have known how things would've worked out; maybe she had liked you too.

  • 1 decade ago

    yea it sounds like it going gr8 and if you wait TOO long either you stay in the friend zone or she might begin to think you just want her as a friend since ya never made a move i say yea go for it chances are she feels the same way

  • 1 decade ago

    Sounds like you already have your answer. Look, don't be desperate. You're in college, don't get fixated on one person. You will never have the same swimming pool you are in right now.

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  • 1 decade ago

    do it now, trust me the worst thing that could happen is that you would leave empty handed, I did the same thing and now I'm paying the price, so do it know!!!!! :)

    Source(s): ME
  • 1 decade ago

    think first how you wanna say and just say it or right it down and give it to her

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