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guys and girls: ok y do guys flirt but never ask? and i have asked but no has ever answered sooo.... : D?

ok why do guys just flirt but never really ask out the girl? and am i like prettyish..........just bored and what should i do to make my self a little more appealing??? thanks 10 points will be rewarded

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  • 1 decade ago
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    guys flirt with girls to gage there response before they ask them out because there afraid of rejection if they don't ask her out it's probably because they arn't sure what her response will be or they are uncomfortable asking in the current situation. And yes you are very pretty i don't think you should change a thing.

  • A lot of guys I know flirt with girls they know they're not going to ask out just for... well the experience. Then again, some are just not relationship people, and some are too shy to move on to the next level.

    You're very pretty, too. I guess to make yourself more appealing to guys you can try flirting with them first... or even doing the asking out.

    Source(s): Just me.
  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    it looked complicated... but i think it might not be that complicated as much. i have some randoms questions that i would like to ask you about: firstly, how did you feel when you went "on a date" with him? were you happy? was he content too? were the two of you enjoying each other at that time? or were you guys hanging out like a best buddies? about he had a girlfriend, and they had broke up, and gave you a weak smile... it seem to me that he was sad and guilty for breaking up with his ex. you said the reason they broke up was because the girlfriend thought he flirted too much. and you knew this because....? don't mind what your friend think. you cannot judge people based on just one sided. it isn't fair to one party as you haven't hear both sides of the story. he confused you because he didn't talk to you more now that he didn't have a girlfriend? i'm sorry, but i have to point this out. a relationship doesn't work that way. you want a relationship with him, and you expect him to talk to you like nothing happened? for a guy, that could be a no-no. in this point of view, i would say he might be serious about her, and maybe their break up was a misunderstanding. this is what i would suggest: "give him some time alone, or you could sit beside him and say not a word. being comfortable with each other is the key word and plays quite an important role in a relationship. if he's consider you as best buddy, he might tell you." now you have learnt that he got another girlfriend the next day, again, you knew this because....? if you were there to witness about him having another girlfriend, it could mean that what your friend said about him being a man whore could be right on spot. however, let's not judge him too quickly. how do you even know he had a new girl? had it occurred to you that the new girl might be just a friend? a really close one, i mean. like hanging out with her like you and him did in the past? i'm not the one to judge as i could be wrong about this. age doesn't matter. there are people encounter a love or a crush in such a young age, there are people, however, have crush on someone else until they're older. let's not think about who's younger or older now, shall we? who is the "he" who said you're hot and like you but won't do anything to it? him or your neighbor who happens to be his friend? and your neighbor kept pushing you you to ask who's "he" out? if both "he" here was the boy you like, it could mean that he still cares about you, but felt guilty because of what happened to him and his ex. could it be that your neighbor understand his situation, and that he knew that you and his friend (the boy who you like) liking each other? that could explain "the pushing" from your neighbor... but don't get excited or happy just yet, because that's only my assumption. whether it's authentic, you will have to ask your neighbor about it. p/s: point me out if i'm wrong about the "him", the one who your neighbor kept pushing you to. ... and pardon my grammatical errors.

  • 1 decade ago

    huh... It seems that it isn't only the girl's self-confidence that has dropped...it's the guys too. They're too cowardly to ask the girl for anything directly, so they just kind of flirt it out of them XD (eh?) And girls do it too.

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  • 1 decade ago

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    when i like a girl i flirt with her alot before i actually ask her out, most of my friends do this too. so if hes flirting alot hes probly just waiting to get you alone then he'll ask.

    and i think your quite pretty

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    sum guys flirt to find out if ur interested then make themselves more confused wondering if your just being nice or are really interested, then it goes over and over in there head. so he needs your direction to move forward. so guide him if u like him

  • 1 decade ago

    Yeahh you are indeed pretty! Guys like to do that..to play hard to get. You be the one to do it more. It may be hard and you may want to keep flirting but you have to keep them ALWAYS wanting more. Trust me

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I flirt but never aks a girl out.Yes ur pretty

  • 1 decade ago

    ugh, i hate it when this happens! you look like you are eleven and I am almost 23 and I feel really weird when a really young person posts their pic asking to be rated...

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