*Personal Question* (All girls please answer)?

You know I just got out of a relationship just like that. I can honestly tell you that at first I was not attracted to this guy. I had dated two gorgeous guys back to back right before him and he didn't seem like my type. As i got to know him though, I fell in love with him, because he was kind, and self confident and considerate. It really opened my eyes to see that I was able to look past the physical--at first I just ignored it and then shortly after I realized that I truly was attracted to him, and I thought that was a good learning experience for me to see that love comes in all shapes and sizes. You know the previous "hot" guys never treated me as well, and worse self confidence than the bigger guy. Give yourself a chance to look past the physical, don't care what others think or say. This guy may just be a real catch. best of luck to you

YES. I don't believe in people being shallow or narrow minded! At the end of the day it's not about how the person looks but about how they are going to treat you and if they are going to treat you like a princess then i wouldn't hesitate! Life is too short to be concerned about other peoples looks! If you are uncomfortable with the way he looks then he's obviously not what you want. But are you going to let that get in your way and potentially lose something that could be amazing? But at the end of the day everyone is different! It's what you like that matters.

If I was attracted to him his weight wouldn't matter. But I'm also a chubby girl so I know what it's like to wonder about things like that.

it depends how chubby. i like my guys with a nice body personally

yes

umm. yes I would. That actually what my current sounds like.

but...I think what people want to hear is...

are you loyal...respectful? do you lie...are you caring?

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no. I like my guys athletic

yes, but he should also love me, care about me, and understand me.

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