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What does it take to meet a nice girl these days? It is so hard to find a girl without children or divorced.?

Every where I look I see women with children. Divorced !!! I look all around and meet women but they always have baggage. They always have kids, been divorced, or have kids without being married. I have never been married, have no kids, and want my own kids not someone elses. I don't think I am being selfish having waited to get ahead in life in business and being well set before marriage. I am just having trouble finding a nice girl. Any recommendations as where I might find a half way decent girl. I just want someone I can grow old with age doesn't matter so I don't mind dating someone 10 to 15 years younger I have already. I actually get pretty great reception from younger girls but again some of those have kids already and young !!! WHAT GIVES ????

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Take some night classes at a college

    church

    join a community theatre group

  • 1 decade ago

    You could go to a church that seems to have young people and a lot of activity but it doesn't guarantee there will not be divorced women or women with children. In my opinion, if you find you really love someone, you will love her kids she has already. Remember, there's a lot of women out there who maybe made a bad choice when they were young, That doesn't mean they are not great women. Children aren't baggage, they're in need of a stable home. And there's nothing to prevent you having your own kids and making a blended family. Ask yourself if you're maybe being somewhat picky! Maybe there's females out there who are being "picky" about men with an over-demanding requirement for marriage! Think about it.

  • 1 decade ago

    you hit the nail on the head dude!! i see the exact same **** everyday and as far as iam concerned i have little if any respect for these girls that have to do everything before age 25, if they were smart they wouldnt be so quick to turn down guys like us and maby just maby they would possibly wait to have children. iam glad iam not the only one who notices this crap. best of luck

  • 1 decade ago

    AVOID BARS dont go to ur local bar in your small *** town, you know there is just a bunch of strung out moms there, go to clubs more oriented for teens/young adults or w.e ur age area is, and my favorite tactic is to get many numbers so you can pick from a large number of ladies

    Source(s): its all in my head,
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    wow. you're a JERK.

    no wonder you have a hard time with women.

    kids are not a bad thing. my bf has two kids. they're amazing. i don't for a second try to be their mom but we are great friends. they are such a bonus.

    now go smack yourself and turn into a nice guy. then u will meet a nice girl.

  • 1 decade ago

    you are right. i dont know but i thing you can some girl who is not divorced or had a child.

  • 1 decade ago

    whats your age? cause that would definatly narrow the search areas for girls suitable for you

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