Are gays really wired?

I used to go to conservative churches that teach that abstinence crap, and I learned that the leaders of these churches actually crack jokes about 30 and 40 year-old virgins behind their backs. Now I just send my Christian friends to the site below which debunks the whole thing against premarital sex in the Bible. It covers same-sex lifestyles too. I hope it helps you.

"Can you honestly tell me that after a month of abstinence, that if you took a shower with a bunch of beautiful women you would not be stimulated?"

Yes, it would do nothing for me.

"I can say honestly that after a month of abstinence I would not be stimulated by showering with a bunch of guys?"

-Then you must be straight.....

"For the record, most of us don't believe that you will not be stimulated by a bunch of naked women in a shower. You will not be able to convince us of that!"

-Why not? You wouldn't be stimulated by a shower full of naked men....so why should gay men, turn straight, if you wouldn't turn gay after a month of abstinence? You're just an idiot if you think like this.

After a month, no. After 20 years, I don't know. I can honestly say that showering with women doesn't turn me on.

"And if you are stimulated by naked men, why can't you understand that the rest of us are not interested in seeing your stimulation in the shower next to us!"

Well I have seen definitely straight guys get random erections in shared shower rooms/changing rooms, and most of the time, that's all it is - a random erection. Most people are mature enough to understand that.

Your question works both ways, Mikey.

If YOU were abstinent for a month and then showered with a bunch of hot naked men, you would not be stimulated?

Why is it so hard to conceive the idea that some [most/all?] gay people are born gay?

I think that being gay is not something you choose.

I have a family member who is gay. He has always shown signs of being gay since young childhood.

There is the other side to that where a gay male may have been raised by an all female family. In turn they in a sense put women on a pedestal as something that can not be viewed as a sexual object. Almost like an extreme respect and a boundary you do not cross.

No, because they are attracted to men. What part of that don't you get? Would you do the same if you were in a shower with men? No like you said you wouldn't.

You answered your question with your last line bro. Nope, a gay guy won't get turned on by any amount of naked women.

You do realize that you answered your own question, based on your own "assessment" after a month long abstinence.

Are we "wired"?...Wired for what?

Why are you looking at another man's erection? If you claim to be straight, what ever could have possessed you to look at another man's privates?

girls don't do anything for me

just like guys don't do anything for you

edit:

to the last part you just added, no, i don't get "stimulated" in front of other people, that would be gross.

NO! THEY ARENT WEIRD GAYS ARE HOT ( HEHE IN NOT GAY) BUT I LOVE GAYS TOTALLY NOT WEIRD TO ME (MY OPINION) BUT IT ISNT WEIRD THOUGH ,MAYBE YOU WERE JUST USED TO THE ABSTINENCE, IT'LL COME BACK THOUGH