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How do I let her go...... or what should I do..... I need help plz?
Ok well I have been dating the love of my life for 2 years, and we have had somethings happen in our relationship that really broke my trust in her but she worked on it to give me that trust back then took it away again. She has not cheated on me from what I know of but she is always flirting with other guys and it hurts when I would never do that to her. I found stuff out by looking in her phone saving chat history.... you know the first class @sshole mistake, but I do have the right to know in my opinion also she has lied to my face about it when I confronted her about it and just ended up getting pissed off and I ended up doing all I could to make things up again and we kept on getting back together. Things were good for a while and now I checked again just to be sure I can trust her and be happy and I found more flirting stuff saying. I wish I was single..... You are good looking...... You will be my next bf...... etc. Then we got in a big fight about it when I just said I know u are doing stuff behind my back and I am hurt. She started crying because of it and that I said I don't have trust in her again. Someone called the police because they heard her crying and sent me home for the night but then we talked on MSN and she was telling me she just wants me and she loves me and wants us to be together and I asked her why she did that and said those things and she said "Because I am stupid" but things got out of hand and she got pissed off at me and now won't even talk to me. Before all this we were so in love, happy and so perfect for each other but she always causes problems. Now I can't put my phone down or stay off MSN when I go try keep my self busy I can't and go back to getting my phone and checking to see if she is on MSN. I feel I can't loose this girl and I need her all my ex gf I let go of or broke up with me is not as hard then with her. I need her I can't just let her go.
She is a very sweet, shy, quite, beautiful, friendly girl. It is almost shocking she would do that to me.
I always do sweet things for her too I even took her to Disneyland for 10 days and I live in Canada and so much more. I have always done things for her that were above and beyond to show my love and be the sweetest guy alive.
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- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Ok tough situation, for some reason your story reminds me of my relationship with my bf (although i don't cheat on him but he just gets jealous for the fact that I don't spend enough time with him). I think I can relate to what your gf is feeling, I tend to get really pissed off with confrontations, even though I've done nothing wrong. If you love her to the extent your speaking of and can't imagine letting her go, my advice is this, be very very patient with her, give her space, try approaching the problems in a civilized way (don't attack her or accuse her), just make her know that you love her and would do anything for her, but that you also have limits and she should respect that. And be straight with her just say "Babe look I'm not sharing you with anyone else, if you can't accept that, then that's my queue to leave."Try doing that and see how it goes
- 1 decade ago
Thats like my relationship haha. I'd just tell her that you'll never have trust for her again, because really, after that you can't trust them, I know. And say that because of that you'd be pariniod all the time about what shes doing, and tell her you don't want to go threw with that. the key to breaking up is not letting her talk you into staying with her. Put your foot down.
