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Why first love gives only pain?
I loved the girl she just stopped me to call her or any kind of communication since 28 July 2008 now its going to be 1 Year but I still want to be with her. I tried Cig. & Drinks to forget her even did everything to forget her. But still she is always in my mind.
Can anyone tell why first love gives pain not happiness.......
10 Answers
- EllenLv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
I wish I knew. I still think about my ex boyfriend from 10 years ago. I mean everyday. It's awful. I'm starting to think I'll never get over him.
- 1 decade ago
Well it is not First love that causes pain. Deep and Sincere love which is not reciprocated does cause pain.
Perhaps since it is also your first love and you were genuine about it, the hurt remains.
Try to understand the depth of your feelings.
Well if love was reciprocated it would have been bliss, it would have also meant each would have taken the other for granted.
you got to move on. You have the capacity to Love perhaps there is some one who needs your love
Go and seek and share this pure love
cheers
- 1 decade ago
i'll say ur choice is wrong..anyway whenever u thought of that girl u just do meditation to forget her memories. everything will change one day,so don't spoil ur health by taking cig and drinks.,that will not help u to forget that girl. whenever her memories came just go on with ur favourite thing like hearing music or some others..trust yourself you will acheive a very big thing one day.
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- 1 decade ago
bcz it is not love love never show the rong way.
it is ur attraction but ur making its love.
hit the drink and smoke.
don,t forget her try this she will automatically remove from mind u r in dangerous state take care ur self and try to new life with good frnd who gives good advise.
i m also 24 yer old but i have no grlfrnd.but have first love of first side but i m not creaze because love is a power of mind .it makes the person not destroy.....................and in last bdi try this and make happy life.
because life also a lovely thing so do love with life don't destroy it in dmi love........................ani
- 1 decade ago
because she was ur first love, and because of tht she will always be on ur mind. first love gives pain, because its the first time tht its ever happened to you. ur gonna feel things u didnt know u could feel.
Sure,it'll give u SOME happiness, but if it wasnt true love then, ya..pain wotked its way into ur life.
im so sorry about her:(
- 1 decade ago
think that god hav stored somthing more better 4 u in life.dont think that u r unlucky, she is unluky who hav missed true love in her life.dont indulge urself in badhabits.im sure some one more interesting person wilcom in ur life.so move onnnnnnnnnnn.and wait 4 ur true love 2 com in ur life.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Well Honey, dis is exactly d definition of first love!!
Welcome to Life!!
c, it is a part of the experience..nevr mind..i think it is coz u havnt really got engaged in any oder thing since it hpnd...get occupied..
- 1 decade ago
Because, till then you had no experience.
that's why you would fail.
Source(s): No Pain, No Gain. - Anonymous1 decade ago
you just need to get over it!