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WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A GUY ASKS IF YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND?

I'm a hostess at a Chilis restaurant, and this guy Pancho is a waiter.

he always says "youre so pretty" or "why are you so pretty" and "you have such pretty eyes" and recently he came up behind me and put his arms around me and kissed me on the shoulder 3 times.

i just stood there cuz i didnt know what to do. what should i do if he does it again? I realllllly liked it. LOL. actually he turns me on ALOT. ahhhhhhh i still keep thinking about it. maybe its cuz its almost that time of month and i'm really horny or something, but ahhhhh i just want him to rape me.

and today he did the same thing again. put his arms around me from behind and kissed me 3 times on the shoulder.

the weird thing is he isnt even that hot and hes a lot older than me. (i think he is like 27-31. i am 20.

i think i might be attracted to him because he seems so masculine/ manly. (i am a very small girl and he is kinda big . not fat just big)

and he is so great with the customers! i love his personality.

o ya and the other day he asked me if i have a boyfriend. WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN GUYS ASK THIS??

so what do you think, is he interested or is he just being friendly??????

and how should i flurt with him back????

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Duh he wants to know if your available! Go for it if your attracted to him, nothing wrong with 2 Adults hooking up who are intrested in each other. :) Next time he says something laugh and slap him on the @ss and say "your so silly" or very obviously lean into him when he's talking to you. or say "I'm so tired and I need a hug and hug him for a real awkward long time and lift your face up slowly to meet his.If he's not gay he will eventually kiss you. Thats what my manager did to me when it was just the 2 of us on the night shift and I kissed her and we had the most mind blowing sex for at least 3 months everyday.

    Source(s): * God I miss her!
  • 1 decade ago

    It was very bold of him to do such a thing. If the manager caught him he could of been fired for groping you. If you liked it then ask him out He wants to know if you are available but since he's already kissing on ya then I doubt that is really a concern for him. You only live once so have fun and be safe.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    That means That He Likes You And You Should Flirt Back Only If You Like Him Though Lol

  • Janice
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Ok first I just want to say this question is so cute :) Now, if he asked you to "go out" that probably means to date one another. If he asked you to go out sometime then chances are he wants to date you. But back in my day of youth that meant boyfriend/girlfriend. At this point in my life my bf didn't even ask me out or me him. We got together and never parted and one day ... behold, he introduced me as his girl. Somethings take time. Have fun!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Guys can be stupid and simple, this one falls in these two categories.

    I laughed when i saw this question because it means EXACTLY what it means!!

    Then again, i could be wrong, maybe hes just asking as a friendly way of starting awkward conversation.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He is definitely interested. Next time he comes up and kisses you on the shoulders, turn around grab the front of his shirt and kiss his face!!!

    Haha

  • 1 decade ago

    if he does it alot then hes intrested in you or just wanna have sex with you also next time when he does it turn around and say do u like me and say cause i like you and thats when a relationship starts tell the man the truth

  • 1 decade ago

    It means he's wondering if you have a boyfriend or not.

    If he's wondering if you have a boyfriend, he's probably interested, but he could just be making conversation.

    In your case though, I think the signals are pretty clear.

  • 1 decade ago

    If he's complimenting you, hugging you, kissing you on the shoulder, and asking you if you have a boyfriend, he is definitely interested in you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Its obvious from the flirting, compliments and his question, that he is interested in you.

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