I have been looking into the ToS and Guidelines and I get the feeling that they want me to report all abuse?

The answer to this is yes. If you see any content that goes against the said sets of rules, you should report it. Be very careful on how you report other users, however, because your false report will result in it being overturned and your trust level will lower downwards. Also, you'll have less effect in doing this in the future. Remember that habitually abusing this feature will result in the permanent suspension of your Answers account.

Go here to check out the pop-quiz on reporting abuse here and you'll get the picture on what I'm saying: http://help.yahoo.com/l/us/yahoo/answers/moderatio...

There is absoulety nothing obligating you to use the abuse feature - use at will whenever you feel something is wrong. Tell the powers that be who are supposed to be running this site how you feel.

This site is set up in a way that users report each other, there's no named moderators I've ever seen. This can be good or bad in that one can be reported for a post that ticks a single reader off, or gain status do to a bunch lame answers and 'friends'.

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