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what do i talk about on my date with this girl?

okk i ask out for a date after school but am kind of nervous..i don't know what to talk about when am with..pleases give me topics to talk about thank you

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  • 1 decade ago
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    it may sound absolutely impossible, but what comes naturally.

    the key to achieving this is to just forget that you are on a date, forget the nerves and just remember that above everything, you are friends with this girl. so act like you are just friends hanging out normally.

    so...just talk about things you have in common. gossip (haha.) or school, books you like (but that's a bit lame. but it is fun). usually the best conversations are when you are just talking with friends, so just remember that and it should come to you, no matter how scary it sounds!!

    most importantly, if you seem nervous in your body language it will make it harder to talk, and for her too because she may think you're scared or something. so act cool and relaxed and HAVE A GOOD TIME. don't be so focused on things that may go wrong. :)

    good luck,prince charming!

  • 1 decade ago

    Hey Bob,

    Listen, don't go into a date with a list in your mind that says "Okay these are the topics that can break silent moments". That whole saying "Just be yourself" really pulls through. Just be yourself, talk about things that interest you, ask about her. Oh! One thing, be CONFIDANT! Women love a man that is confidant and comfortable with himself.

    Hope that helps!

    -Ryan

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i 100% agree with ryan

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    if u don't feel the autopilot talk you can't do it....forget it...u either relax and talk brilliantly on autopilot or forget it shy boy.

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