help getting past this? Guys may be more help.?

it really depends on how far you will go for this guy, if its just someone you want to hit and quit, then move on, but if its someone who you want to stay with forever, then call him, write him a letter or email him. but if you are just dealing with the lust factor then find someone who is better, try to forget about what happened. and yes this happens to most guys as well. when they see someone they think is cute or hot, they want to sleep with them, but since this is your first time experiencing this, you will have a hard time getting over it. but time helps and if you dont think about it too much that also helps

It is so sad that this is the kind of world that our children and grandchildren have to grow up in. Do you not hear yourself or have respect for yourself? What you could do is start by getting your mind out of the gutter and get some morals. What good can come out of jumping in bed with someone that you are lusting after? None. Would you not rather be in love with someone who loves and respects you? Not if you continue in this direction. Try reading the Bible and turn yourself around please before its too late and you ruin your life.

It happens to guys too, and the feeling will pass, though it will take a little time. The best thing you can do is not worry about what might have been, but rather look to the future.

YES,IT HAPPENS TO GUYS.WE CALL IT GETTING WHAT W WANT AND MOVING ON,THE LADIES CALL IT BEING DOGGISH.US GUYS CALL IT BEING A 304.IN ANY CASE BOTH SEXES DO IT AND CRITICIZE EACH OTHER ABOUT IT.I SAY EITHER COME UP WITH THE MONEY AND FLY THE 1800 MILES TO SEE HIM SO THAT YOU CAN SCRATCH THAT ITCH OR MOVE ON FROM IT AND PROWL ON SOMEONE ELSE.

Its the ones that get away that stick in your mind the most not the ones that you get. I can tell you though just hooking up w/ random girls in any form ( or i guess guys in your case) gets old eventually leaves feeling empty.

Well you have like 10 questions in one. Overall I can say this: The best way to get over it is to get in a relationship with another guy. Maybe even just sleep with another guy, it seems to me that you're pretty damn horny :P You will get past this, no worries.

You're just angry at yourself because you told yourself and believed that you would sleep with him, but you chickened out and didn't. Just try to let go and forget about it. It's just one guy. Hope I helped!

what you have is not called lust, its called

OBSESSION!!!

get over him before it comes between you life, career, and loved ones.

you may need to see a therapist.

well if i was in your situation i would give him a call and talk 2 him than get his e mail but i am not a girl and not gay.

good luck!

well if it was ment to be it prob would have happend...everything happends for a reason...just remember good things happend to those who wait mayb its not the rite time rite now its no good to rushh things:)) hope i helped