Why is it that being married has to feel so...... lonely?

I feel it a lot when my husband is working all the time, or we have too much going on and don't get to spend much time together. even if we're in the same room, just doing different things. I still feel lonely then. But, it comes and goes. We have only 2 friends outside of family. We left our old friends behind and started over. So, not knowing anyone or having people to talk to or hang out with and things like that, only make it worse.

The thing is once you get married you can't just do for yourself. Before I got married I had several male friends and I didn't have to worry if my husband would mind me playing the PS3 with this guy who has some of the same hobbies as me. Now that I am married all those friends are no more. The women I met don't like playing video games or playing sports. My husband does have some of the same interest but some times he just want to relax. And I want to hit the tennis court but don't have a partner to play with. Or he is working late and when he comes home he is tired. I agree marriage can be lonely at times. But I wouldn't go back to the single life. I just wish sometimes you can have your cake and eat it.

I feel the same way right now!!

He is working all the time. And is very stressed about money. He doesnt feel like we have money for anything. I dont work. I stay at home with our 4month old Daughter. Its like even when he is home, we try so hard to find something to talk about. We barely EVER have sex anymore, and if we do its not like it was before, now its jusst bascially to fulfil his needs and thats all, no more foreplay on my part i get no attention anymore in bed before sex and like i said its only if im lucky one a week!! I feel so lonely, we dont talk. It does change every so often. I just wish we could go back to how things were. I miss him alot. And i hate feeling lonely =[

I hope it gets better for you also!

I were married 21 years in cot and my man works his eight hrs at paintings and springs residence to take a seat on his IPad he has a few pursuits that do not incorporate me we do not move out he stresses out approximately cash and we wouldn't have bodily members of the family in approximately two yrs I am Extremely lonely and ponder whether it is going to final he says he completely satisfied and I do not care approximately the intercourse anymore after 21 yrs however the human connection sure I want.and our two children are moved out residing there lives each very dependable so I do not consider I suppose in fortunately ever after or soul associates......which makes me very unhappy well success lady it is very tough I recognize suppose me

Marriage can run that course same here!My hubby is working alot I see him once a week!With our son I feel neglected!!We were sexually active like 6 times a week now Its barely once every week and half!So just tell him k I need time with you sexually or just mentally and maybe theyll take the time out for a little and just know that they still care about you!

My life isn't lonely now that I'm married. My life feels complete :)

I feel the same way right now. Because he's "stressed at work".

that's how it is they expect you to to spend every moment with them but when they come home they are too busy for you and too jealous to let you go out on your own.