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a girl you find as an acquaintance use to be your bf's ex . she finds you as a friend and tells you that she's dissapointed for not having her know about the relationship. well she also told me that she use to love him and that was pregnant with him. she calls my bf occasionally to let him know she misses his family and calls to say happy birthday. one time she even comes over to say hi. my bf says its a good thing i let her. do you think so? we're not even that close to each other i only know her through parties. and i didn't figure out that they use to be together until i got with him.
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- kimballzLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
That's very very healthy and proves that you have trust in your boyfriend. Jealousy can kill a relationship and end it, as well as show your lover/partner that you don't trust them. This can cause a great burden and stress in the relationship you're in.
I just want to say, you seem like a very strong healthy person and dont change that. Maybe sit and talk to your boyfriend about how HE feels about her coming over, not just about how he feels about how you handle it. AWESOME!
Source(s): counselor/3 years experience - 1 decade ago
I would agree with the response from the person above me,it's good and healthy that you can show enough trust in him to let his ex girlfriend in your home,knowing the history between them.trying to put a stop to it may and probably would do one of 2 things,either he is weak (no offense intended at all) and says OK and ends it,or he stands up for himself and says that if you cannot accept it then you are not ready to deal with him AS WELL as everything that comes with him,past,present,and futer.the choice on what you do is ultimately yours,but before you go to the extreme think about the consequences...this is coming from bad experience on my own part which is partly due to the situation in the question i have out there which you gave your answer to. Just don't act rash right off because if you really love him and it turns out bad it may be very hard to repair it.But also don't put yourself through hell by keeping it to yourself if it gets that hard to deal with.Hope this helps you some,sorry if it feels im rambling a bit,im kind of distracted at this time.good luck...really.
- 1 decade ago
sounds like hes still sleeping with her sorry but it does. I wouldnt let none of my husbands ex come over or call hell no relationships in the past is done. And its a good thing you let her talk to him and let her come over wtf..?? Sounds like hes still seeing her
