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In your opinion, where is this relationship going? Sex, yes or no? What do you think about our situation?
Well, My boyfriend and i have been together for several months now and have known each other for years, we're always happy to see each other of course, and the sex is great. Everything seems to be going well but i cant help but to feel like something is wrong sometimes, especially when He gets jealous and protective of me even when im around the girls. I love him very much and he says the same, but i just get the vibe that our relationship is somewhat, well empty in a way. Could sex just be making things more complicated and eventually ruin everything or is it possibly helping us? what could we do to work on our intimacy (emotions wise, not physically really) and what could we do to try and add more substance to this relationship? I know we both love each other and care about each other very much, im still confused why i have these feelings about us though...any comments? suggestions? similar situations?
We do talk and have many things in common it just feels like we're both always busy with work and we hardly ever get to see each other anymore. things have just been difficult lately and i dont want to tell him that i've been feeling kinda bummed out because i know he usually just gets upset. i want to be honest with him but i also want to have a suggestion on how to fix the problem and right now i dont even know exactly what the problem is... :S
4 Answers
- 1 decade ago
Cutting out sex will make you both even edgier, and him think that you don't want him. It sounds like the relationship is more than just sex to him. Maybe you can use the great sex toward the intamacy. Like... instead of making wambam your done, try being romantic, and playful. Maybe one of you is afraid to voice how you really feel because you're afraid that the other doesn;t feel the same
- Anonymous1 decade ago
It's sounds like sex is the only thing you have going on. You didn't mention your age. My husband and I have 17 years between us and I've realized that what we both enjoy and have in common keeps us together. You need to find a common ground without the sex. Otherwise you are doomed.
- 1 decade ago
sex? NO. not the answer. the answer is just to have a little him and you time. just talk about how your lives are going. be open with each other. i'm sure you both love each other unconditionally, but sex is NEVER the answer. you both need to spend time together to learn more about each other and when something is up.
