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Girl A ( Best friend ) or Girl B ( Affair ? .... )?
Hey I dont know who to choose. Quick back story.
Girl A : My best friend, known her for years, past 6 months have been on and off with her when it comes to an actual bf/gf relationship with her. Liked her recently, crap with another friend made me look else where because she wasn't interested.
Girl B : used to have a 1 year relationship with her. Broke it off 2 years ago. Been great friends ever since. Great sexual energy between us both. She has a boyfriend, but, ( yeah, I know.. ) we've kissed and stuff and I want her to take a break from him so we can see what it's like together again.
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When Girl A found out what was happening with Girl B, she becomes all over me, literally. Calls me Mista S ( mister sexy ), Her msn personal messages are about me, making plans with me, serious flirting ( which she usually never, ever does unless she really likes a guy so he doesnt get the wrong idea ) spending all her time with me. Takes my shirts so she can wear them, sits on my lap, talks about me to others all the time, gives me massages, plays with my hair looks deep in my eyes, touches my arm when she can, tries to hold my hand, doesn't mind where my hands go if we're close together, etc.
I'll be honest, when girl B isn't around, I want to be with Girl A. When I'm with Girl B, it feels right, even though Girl A is always in the back of my mind.
Do you think Girl A even likes me at all or is she just looking for a teddy bear? What should I do? ( And don't just tell me who to choose, please.. )
17 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I think Girl A sounds best... but neither of them sound 100% "right" to me.
If A is in the back of your mind all the time though, and it "feels right", then I'd say go for her. Girl B sounds more like a physical lust type feeling you have for her.
Trust me, been there. I really loved a girl but there was another girl and it felt "good" when I was around the other girl, but the girl I truly loved was always in the back of my mind, and I knew I should spend more time with who I truly had feelings for.
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- 1 decade ago
It sounds like girl a became jealous when she heard about ur other girl. she probably didn't have her feelings 4u sorted out before but now she does. she wants u to back away from the other girl and come to her, if u think you'll have a better time with girl a go for her cuz it sounds like she'll say yes to anything u ask.
You have to ask ur self which one is easier to talk too and which one is funner to be around and you'll get ur answer.
personally i think u should go for girl a cuz she is ur good friend and relationships between good friends are awesome when both of them have their feelings for each other all sorted out.
- beth! :)Lv 41 decade ago
i think girl A seriously has real feelings 4 u. and i think girl B is just using u 4 sex or just 2 be her teddy bear. if she is cheating on the guy with u now shes going 2 do it 2 u. and once ur foind out what would u do? shes obviously using u and shell cheat on u if u choose her. girl A is the girl 4 u.
- 1 decade ago
If i were you, i would move onto plan C (or in your case girl c)
if you can't decide which girl to choose, and you are doing stuff with both of them, then that's not a good sign. one of them is dating and they're cheating on theif boyfriend with you. what makes you think she won't do that to you if you two were dating? and your best friend girl a, should just stay your best friend. it's good to have someone of the opposite sex to just sit down and talk to when you're having problems and they will be there for you. but if you just date her and then break up, who will you have to be there for you, you know? so my best advice would be to tell both of them that you would rather just be friends. then go and find someone else to date. there are tons of fish in the sea! hope this helped
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
yeah, truth be told you don't want either of them.
Girl A is selfish, and wants your attention to feel like she's in relationship but it doesn't sound like she wants YOU. sounds like she likes the feeling of being number 1, and that's all you are to her.
Girl B on the other hand is also equally just as selfish but in a different way, she's looking for something 'better' and wants the best of both worlds. She will play you.
You can't trust either of them.
Source(s): I'm a girl. I know how they work. - 1 decade ago
before you make a choice i would be sure that either of the girls want a relationship with you. i think that the way you are thinking about girl a even when you are with girl b tells me that deep down you already made your choice and just want to be sure that its not the wrong one. good luck.
- 1 decade ago
i think girl a doesnt want to lose you...
like in both ways i guess
and maybe she liked you even before she started doing that. she just kept it in till the girl B came.
i guess she's jealous and stuff.
if you think girl b is right why'd you break it off?
maybe you think it's right because you have feelings for her
Girl A..
- Anonymous1 decade ago
sweety i say go for girl A, girl B could get you into alot of drama, i mean are you sure she wants to break it off with her bf? and if your always thinkin of girl A it prolly means ur more into her, girl B just seems like someone you'de like to mess around with
- Anonymous1 decade ago
well Girl A is acting like this b/c girl B is in the picture. but forget about girl B until she drops her bf, then you have choose btw the two.
- 1 decade ago
You should at least try to ask girl A out.Even then you have a back up(not trying to be mean)Or maybe you should just leave both of them alone.