What are some ways to End a Relationship?

Hehehehe all those years I had given people the knowledge of to love, be loved, being in love, falling in love, what love is... this question surely is a best one to answer ! ^.^

-- Just prove urself (very important) and him(2nd priority) that ur not in love, anymore ! (Both shud be done infront of him...)

-- If u wanna break...... break it completely in one shot ! (No point in washing ur hand in the same water again n again..)

-- No more ties !

All of the above, whether U gonna do it by means of talking or thru ur actions is all upto u......

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There are no pat answers here for this hard drama where it will cause pain and heartache probably both ways. I can't tell how ready you are willing to end this relationship if true to your guns. (so to speak) The straight forward method of having him sit down with you and explain your thoughts in a quiet manner so he can see where you heading is clearly the honest best way. I didn't say this would be easy. I took it from your your statement break up the way you would want it done to you. I felt with class and dignity however painful it will be the simple way of honesty and directness was the best path. I can't think of an easier way of spreading this type of news and break-up methods sounds so cold and harsh on the surface. Your next best move is the one that keeps it simple and direct no matter how tough the road.......

Whether he ends up believing you or not, being honest with whomever you’re breaking up with is the best way to go. Tell him why you need to move on and answer any questions he may throw at you as honestly as you can. Think about the times you were hurt with no reason. How did you feel? It probably frustrated you wondering why, when things appeared to be going so well, he decided to end it. Be fair and be honest with him. Remember the hurt you felt when you guys had some fights, especially when he keep on flirting to all the girls...show some respect to yourself ok...don't think abt how he will going to feel and leave that bullshit crying gesture in a man they're just acting to melt your heart once again...good luck!

Well, here are some of the worst :

1. Ask him/her out to dinner at your favourite restaurant. When he/she arrives, start making out with a stranger.

2. Lie to him/her in front of public, scream out loud that you don't love him anymore, that you despise him, that he has a tiny little penis etc.

3. Change your phone number,contact details, your messenger address,your name, move out of the city.. Just disappear.

4. Worse yet, fake your own death and hold a funeral.

5. Tell him/her you are getting married. Don't forget to send out the invitations.

6. Let him/her catch you in the bed with someone else. Please note that this might backfire and you might end up in a threesome.

7. If you are a girl, tell him you are pregnant. This too, despite the odds, might backfire.

8. If you are a boy, tell her she is fat and ugly.

9. Broadcast that you are breaking up on your local tv and radio stations.

Seriously though, there are way too many bad methods to break up than good, and that should be pretty obvious . It's almost always true that one of the partners is going to hurt. All you can do is try to minimize it, and the only real way to do it is to have an honest, face to face conversation. Any other method (like breaking up over email or phone) is one-sided in my opinion.

whoa! thats ouchy!!! before thinking it over you shud think the positive and the negative outcome of it, of d situation.I know it's really hard 2 compromise all d time but sometimes we call it a test of time, not and unless u see some coldness on the other side. sometimes we dont realize that being with someone is really captivating though there's a lot of challenges along d way we need to stand and fight for what we have...if u dont love him anymore thats a diff story, b4 u move out from ur relationship think all of the things that can be happening , that can be done, talk 2 him, sort it out all ur differences and if u can still solve any misunderstanding then fix it ...if not then call it quits...u guys need to talk have some heart to heart talk and then both of u decide and go both ways if you cant solve it anymore if youre both not in love anymore but if you do for heaven sake ...stay! and start a new beginning again ...i know that sometimes couples do fight a lot due to some misunderstanding ...but try to talk abt things okay! and hey take it easy...if u need some shoulders to lean on remember ur friends there with u all the time okay! good luck! and cheer up!

Chances are if he doesn’t see it coming, he won’t be happy with being dumped. He will curse at you, call you every name in the book, and make you feel like hauling off and punching him in the face. Restrain yourself. You’re leaving anyway, so just take a deep breath, nod politely and then walk away. You won’t gain anything by goading him on or giving him the satisfaction of knowing he upset you.

Just be careful!

Make sure you are absolutely ready to do it...Not being totally sure of your feelings when you go to end a relationship can mess with your heart and his. If you’re not completely certain that it’s the right thing to do, you’ll confuse him and make him feel like he still has a chance, or worse, you’ll lose him when you still have feelings for him. Be totally ready to cut the ties or risk more heartache than necessary.

Ending up a relationship is not really an easy task or a game to play you have to think so many times , think of the negative and the positive sides and the outcome of it. Its really hard to broke someones heart and had a broken heart as well...think before you do it ok...good luck!!!

Tj??? wow really finally lol! hey cheer up...well i know it's really hard to go both in different ways but it's for your own good you know...perhaps you guys need to breath, new atmosphere, it's really hard to just compromise all the time...think about yourself and for the benefits of it...but make sure that you won't hurt him so bad, well if he did some bad things to you before and think of all the fights that you guys had , hehhehehe it won't that hurt anymore. Love aint enough in a relationship, it's more to it than you can imagine....gluck!

Ouch! ending up and getting dumped is really hard you know!!! 'been there gurl and I'm still suffering for it...i keep on praying that hope they will split up soon, hopefully my long awaited prayer will be granted soon lol!

Anyway, just be honest with him, think of all the bad things he did for you...all the bad memories he shared w you , all the heartaches he impact in your heart and mind...and make sure youre ready for it...dont be like the girl i know...even though her bf flirt and cheated on her she still loves him...well he's flirty and horny but damn that gurl really blind.